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    Default How to open at the gym

    Hi guys
    I have recently some HBs at the gym and since direct approach is all I know I have approached them directly. Unfortunately all I have received is "Sorry I have a boyfriend". This means that I want to take a different approach for my next target.

    In the past couple of weeks I have noticed that a tall fit chick keeps looking at me. I have refrained from approaching her directly because I do not want to repeat the same mistake agian. Tomorrow I am very likely to see her again and I am quite sure if I do not approach her this time she is going to think I am too shy (aka a loser) and she will lose interest so I am keen on hitting on her tomorrow. However I am not sure how to open her indirectly! I know it sounds silly but it's true because normally she is on a treadmill or another machine and she has earphones on so it's not easy to talk to her. She just keeps looking at me and when she sees no action on my behalf she gets grumpy haha.

    Please help me with going up to a hot chick who is on a machine and opening her and making her love me (Kidding) ;-)

    In general there are tons of hotties at this gym so it would be awesome if someone could help me with approaching at the gym.

    cheers guys

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    Default Re: How to open at the gym

    There's a thread about this I guess.
    But I would go with something like "Are you a shy or something? 'Cause I noticed you were checking me out for the last couple of times and you still haven't said hello."

    With a smile.

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    Default Re: How to open at the gym

    Haha really? If I say "I noticed you were checking me" she is going to deny it and get defensive I guess ? I was going to say something like "I noticed that you exercise regularly so if you like you are very welcome to join me and my friends because we work out at this park on Sundays etc". Do you think this would help?

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    Default Re: How to open at the gym

    She's going to deny it and become defensive and you'll stick to your frame, which means you triggered an emotional reaction, which is what the other chumps from your gym are unable to do. Likely she'll smile, meaning that your first impression was good, giving you an open path to her holiest of the hollies.
    That's called push-pull by the way.

    Regarding your intro,
    Yes, it would help you to receive a no. She doesn't know you from nowhere, neither she does know your friends, so why the hell would she join you?
    Oh and it would also help you to become one of the herd of guys who opens her the same boring way, but try it out, we're always learning

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    Default Re: How to open at the gym

    If she's on a treadmill-
    "Dang, you've walked all those miles & you haven't moved an inch further from where you started... I think you're doing something wrong."
    *wink/smile

    Just be playful. Semi-direct & completely different than what other guys would say.

    Definitely do NOT invite her to join you & your friends before you've built attraction & she knows you a little more.
    That would make her feel awkward to be put on the spot like that.

    But by projecting a fun vibe & a more original approach, you'll stand out & have a better chance of getting her attention.


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