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    Default Help!.. Not sure of what I did, hopeless with my lack confidence

    Hey guys, I'm still new to PUA and haven't had much success dating in general to be real honest, I'm going to dive straight in here.

    Today I went to orientation for a new job at a major retail store. Interestingly enough there were 2 other random hires, an older fellow and a cute young HB8.

    She was alone when I walked in and we instantly hit it off and I sat a relative distance away from her. I did my best regardless and by fluke our conversation was getting very meaty when the hiring manager walked in and broke us off and had her seated right beside me. At this point some accidental kino started happening and she warmly recepted them and gave me a few back. After a while kino got heavy and I found her hand on my thigh her full body seated towards me at this point just, so I gave her my hand and she held it, caressed my hand and squeezed it.

    After 10 minutes or so the manager took us for a tour and we kept flirting with eachother, I wanted to hold on to her but I didn't want to risk the job as it was orientation and they don't really allow dating between co - workers.

    Afterwords we continue on in the training room and finally get a break for 10 minutes, we walked outside of the store and went to the mall and sat down on a bench. At this point I was able to successfully K - close her multiple times.( Didn't think it was going to go that far, everything felt real natural though).

    So we head back and get back to work, at this point I get her number and throughout the training session when the managers not around we make - out several times. When she walks by me she gently caresses my shoulder or my thighs.

    Thing is after the K - close she is busting my balls a lot, it doesn't affect me but why (Are these shit tests)?
    Also my phone game is horrible, going to read all the guides on the forum, but any general words of wisdom would be great to. I asked her to send me some pictures and my phone sort of died and haven't replied yet, will do soon.

    Any other crucial things I need to execute at this point that will make or break this deal, please advise. However I also accept the fact that it may never even workout, but I got nothing to lose and would like to try. Thanks

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    Default Re: Help!.. Not sure of what I did, hopeless with my lack confidence

    You seem to fail to realize these sh1t tests are how some women flirt... Flirt back my friend. Its not that she's playing hard to get its that she wants to dance with you verbally and mentally so she can learn about who you are
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Help!.. Not sure of what I did, hopeless with my lack confidence

    You're doing pretty well to K-close a girl you hardly know so fast at a work orientation! Just ask her out. If your phone game sucks then dont chat much via text. Just try and see her again and you can pick up where you left off physically last time. If she is teasing you a little, just have fun, tease her back and don't take any of it personally. Its a sign of affection.

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    Default Re: Help!.. Not sure of what I did, hopeless with my lack confidence

    Thank you for the replies homies.

    Seems I lucked out again at phone game, she loves text and I hate it. I got too aggressive and didn't know what I was saying and asked her for nudes and she got uncomfortable and then I even negged her about the size of her bra. Really? I always say retarded sh1t over the phone, no clue why. Now its damage control zone. I really need to stop burning g4nja, deteriorates my performance. I sure am a hopeless case. Fail again! Time to move on. But atleast I learned a shitload about women and how this game works in the last 12 hours then I ever have in my life so that is a plus point. Letting your natural instincts loose is not bad at all, no need to suppress it with canned routines either.

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    Default Re: Help!.. Not sure of what I did, hopeless with my lack confidence

    Ok I screwed up here. Because I k -closed her relatively quickly even my natural friend said that it was fast. With that floating around my mind I let it screw me, n thought thats all she wanted n asking for the nudes was wrong. I'm sick and tired of failing and feeling sorry for myself, I cant takee this anymore. My primary instincts tell me that all I have to do is build comfort with her over text and she will give me rest once she is attached to me.

    Do any of you know ways to build comfort over the phone without being to needy losing attraction or faltering passed the basic dont be boring and lame while texting stuff.


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