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    Unhappy Help with a girl who block my number

    Hi everyone,

    First of all, sorry for my english, it's not my first language.

    About six or seven weeks I met a girl in a salsa class. Over time I started to really like her and can say that she was into me as well. A lot of touching, laughing and sometimes dancing. One day while dancing, she told me that she was single (i don't remember exactly how the conversation goes there, but im pretty sure I don't even ask).

    The next class I invited her for a date at the next day and she said yes, but then she cancelled by text (whatsapp) an hour before the date, saying that she had to work extra hours (she is an accountant). I reply with a joke (im bad at messaging), she reply 2 hours later explaining me why she cancelled. (I was expecting a reschedule, but didn't happened). So I tell her "see you next class".

    The next class she doesn't appear (in fact just one girl went) so I texted her something like "Hey, nobody came today, we don't have anyone to dance with". My surprise was that the text (whatsapp) never goes out (only one checkmark). Obviously she never answered. I supposed she lost her phone, change number or something like that.

    The next class i asked her if she changed her number or anything because I texted her and the message was never sent but she told me that was the same number (She saw it in my phone and said it was alright). Later that night I realised that I can't see her photo, status or last connection so I was intrigued. The weekend I asked a friend to save her number and check Whatsapp, for my surprise, my friend could see her photo, and everything else, sooooo She blocked me

    I really don't know why she did it. I've just text her once (the reply when she cancelled me) so it's not that i'm stocking her or something. I know that the best step is to move on, but I really want to know what happened and also i'm gonna see her every Monday and Wednesday.

    Any suggestions??

    Thanks in advance.

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    Default Re: Help with a girl who block my number

    She blocked me
    Any suggestions??
    forget her.


    I really don't know why she did it. I've just text her once (the reply when she cancelled me) so it's not that i'm stocking her or something. I know that the best step is to move on, but I really want to know what happened and also i'm gonna see her every Monday and Wednesday.
    my best bet, is that she took your "joke" about why she couldn't meet up as you being all butt hurt about it. (witch is really beta)

    the best thing you can say to a girl who flakes is the one word that is most understood all around the world.

    the word is....

    ok.

    that's right, sometimes less is more especially in this instance.

    example:

    her: I can't make it tonight....

    me: ok.

    its called putting on your poker face, even if your mad about it, seeming calm cool and collected is the best option in most cases like this one.

    as for what you can do to try and get her back? I would recommend moving on, if you see her in class, just act normal, be friendly and flirt with all the other girls.

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    Default Re: Help with a girl who block my number

    Thanks for the quick response meteora.

    I really appreciate the advice. Next time a girl cancel's a date via message i'm gonna response just with ok (I hope doesn't happen to much ha)

    Also I'm gonna start reading more in the forum so I can improve myself.

    Thanks again!


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