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    Default Re: Dealing with Multiple Flakes

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    Don't focus on one single girl, until one single girl makes you HER sole focus.
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    Default Re: Dealing with Multiple Flakes

    Hey guys, thanks again for the advice - I've purchased how2txther and am about halfway through it, some pretty good stuff in there, just wish id thought of it before...

    As far as this girl goes, I haven't spoken to her - something actually came up and I couldn't make the call, so I texted her beforehand telling her that I'd be too busy and I'd try n call her later in the week... I also texted her some fun stuff, a pic of a little dog I ran into.

    She hasn't responded... I'm not overly concerned, I really think she's one of those girls that doesn't like to text, but I'm thinking about leaving it till next week before I try n call her again.

    I want to make sure she's around before I arrange my next visit, which is what she asked me to do, but I'm not sure what I can do if she doesn't answer or doesn't respond again, if anything at all... Will see how it goes.

    Do you guys think I should add her on Facebook or is this a bad move? She hasn't told me her last name, but she wasn't hard to find.

    Thanks for all your advice so far guys, especially I.M.Mortal and Artandale - really has helped and I feel like I've learned a lot already

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    Default Re: Dealing with Multiple Flakes

    You welcome.

    The only reason why I would add a girl I already knew to my facebook is for social proof. Other than that there is no point. The last thing you want to do is be tempted to be one of her AFC/chump/fanboi's who post comments. That's a nice way to devalue yourself.

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    Default Re: Dealing with Multiple Flakes

    I make it a rule not to overly like too many people's social media pieces. If i did i believe i'd be promoting a blind set of gestures that arent rare for special occasions. In some aspects the more i wear it out the less flare it will have because the experience isnt as fresh and comes off more recycled.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Dealing with Multiple Flakes

    From what I've seen, girls find it creepy if you look at their Facebook, DONT comment on it and bring it up later. Seems stalkerish.

    Again, mystery is a Damn good tool and I just don't see FB helping that aspect of game. Texting is more personal and direct and YOU have control over who sees what.
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    Default Re: Dealing with Multiple Flakes

    Well i think its all context if you want to bring it up later. Most people who are glued to social media cant stop talking about it. Its like when our parents used to complain about things we didnt understand. Same sh1t different generation.

    My friends bring up more social media topics and events than i care for but its come across my radar because i do use it. I'm just studying people's behaviors from what they have online compared to their everyday life. I believe as a person who rarely comments or likes a photo or anything i have the upper hand when it comes to socializing in person because my opinion hasnt been heard yet. So when they bring up topics im more than ready to reply.

    I guess i should also mention i dont watch cable / satalite. It helps not being glued to the tv everyday all day. Be active!
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.


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