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Thread: Discovered my weak link and need help fixing!

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    Default Discovered my weak link and need help fixing!

    Alright, so I don't have much problem meeting women and talking to them. Getting them on dates, etc. Not to come off arrogant. I'm fit, good looking, nice car, plenty of money, articulate, but there was something I felt was missing. With some girls I had a difficult time keeping their interest. Some would go out with me and stuff, but things would not lead to much other than one-itis. I think I figured it out. I have a very serious demeanor and I think my strong focus is TOO noticeable when out. In other words, some cases I think I am boring to them. I need to fix this. It's gotten better the last few months but I need to completely fix this and ASAP. It's just my personality. Grew up with two military parents so sometimes I guess my behavior is almost robotic and stiff instead of let down and easy. I would completely welcome any suggestions if you guys could. How do I become more fun??? Thanks.

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    Default Re: Discovered my weak link and need help fixing!

    I'm the same way. The way I 'fixed' it is by not fixing it at all.

    Whenever you think you are looking too serious, just tell yourself that is how you genuinely feel. If this is your genuine personality then wear your colors with pride. Do not be ashamed of your demeanor!

    Being wrapped up in how you think you are being perceived will put you in a paralysis of thoughts.

    I think once you do that you will become 'fun' in your own natural way.


    Girls sometimes think I'm funny in a serial killer kind of way.

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    Default Re: Discovered my weak link and need help fixing!

    I have a very serious demeanor and I think my strong focus is TOO noticeable when out. In other words, some cases I think I am boring to them. I need to fix this. It's gotten better the last few months but I need to completely fix this and ASAP. It's just my personality. Grew up with two military parents so sometimes I guess my behavior is almost robotic and stiff instead of let down and easy. I would completely welcome any suggestions if you guys could. How do I become more fun??? Thanks.
    honestly, I was in the same situation, I grew up on a farm with religious workaholic parents who never joked about anything and never taught me anything besides how to "work"....

    my brother is also a "robot" who just wants to work all the time and never do much else.

    I had the same problem, being raised to be a boring person really sucks. but I've made a lot of progress.


    thank goodness for television and youtube, because without tools like those guys like you and I would be doomed to be boring for eternity.

    I have found that watching funny tv shows, and comedians on youtube is a great way to boost your sense of humor.

    aside from that, make as many friends as you can and practice joking around with them. the more you do it, the loser you'll get.

    btw, another way to combat being a boring person is to take up more hobbies/ do more adventurous things and to not be afraid to talk about all the cool things you do.

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    Default Re: Discovered my weak link and need help fixing!

    Great advice. Thank you! I will definitely put this to the test and try to work on it.


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