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Thread: In need of some advice asap please

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    Default In need of some advice asap please

    Hey guys just looking for some advice. So there's this hot girl that I'm friends with on Facebook that I never talk to because I've always thought she would be to hard to game. So she put up a post asking for a lend of a phone and of course I said I had a spare one that she could have not thinking she would reply. Ten about half hour later she sends me a messages begging me for it and wanted me to bring it to her the only thing is she made a point of saying she cant pay me for it .

    So lol I told her she would owe me a massive favour. I was at the gym at the time and she said just leave it until tomorrow because it was getting late. To be honest this girl is hot as Fark how would I go about gaming her? I don't know if she's sending me a message because after I told her she would owe me and she said we will sort it out tomorrow. I don't wanna just give away my phone for nothing she seems like that sort of girl that would make out with me for it. From what I've seen she's into the rich jail bird biker sort of guys which I'm nothing like lol.

    So should I try just to get a quickie out of her and how would I do that without being a creep lol or just give her the phone and hopefully get friendly with her and game her over time.

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    Default Re: In need of some advice asap please

    I don't wanna just give away my phone for nothing she seems like that sort of girl that would make out with me for it.
    that my friend is what you call "supplication" (wanting sexual favours in return for doing nice things) witch is the most beta thing a man can do. hot girls are used to guys giving them things just because they're attractive.

    you cannot be one of those guys.

    you need to ask for something in return for the phone, but it cannot be any sort of "sexual favour" (like the kiss)

    tell her you'll give it to her in exchange for her to cook a nice dinner for you, or tell her you'll give it to her if she has something to trade for it. (besides sexual favors)

    you cannot allow her attractiveness to blind your judgment, every other schmuck does that.

    ask yourself, would I give this phone to some random dude if he asked for it? if the answer is no, then you are thinking with the wrong head.


    So should I try just to get a quickie out of her and how would I do that without being a creep lol or just give her the phone and hopefully get friendly with her and game her over time
    realy? smh...

    no you shouldn't try to get a quickie out of her. its not going to happen. giving women things in exchange for sex is known as prostitution and there is nothing alpha about paying for sex. (even if she did give you sex for your phone, it would hurt your confidence, because deep down you would feel like the only way a girl like her would have sex with you is if you paid for it. witch would destroy your sense of self worth around women)

    instead trade her the phone for something like her making dinner for you, then use that as an opportunity to get to know her and possibly escalate things later on.

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    Default Re: In need of some advice asap please

    Thanks dude I do just wanna be nice and give her the phone and hopefully get to know her a bit better as well. I just thought I don't have the confidence to game her over a long term I don't want to get friend zoned right off the bat she's a hard girl to read. I just think if I be friendly she will think I'm to much of a nice guy and forget me. Nice guys finish last witch I know from experience.

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    Default Re: In need of some advice asap please

    I just thought I don't have the confidence to game her over a long term I don't want to get friend zoned right off the bat she's a hard girl to read.
    if you don't believe in yourself, yes you will get friend zoned. but its not such a bad thing, having some female friends is a great way to become more comfortable around women.

    Nice guys finish last witch I know from experience.
    then why the heck are you giving her anything she hasn't earned? giving her your phone is more of that typical "nice guy" stuff that has failed you in the past (though its probably too late now, so just use the phone as a way to spend some time with her)

    also

    Nice guys finish last witch I know from experience.
    nice guys don't finish last, boring guys do.

    some of my friends are guys who would give anyone the shirt right off their back, they are kind to most people, but they are also good conversationalists, so instead of getting the typical "nice guy" label, they get labels like "sweetheart" and when they do get friend zoned, they don't care too much and the girls always want to get their friends to date these guys.

    its one thing to be nice to girls on your terms, and a complete other thing to be a "suck up" to girls just so you can get laid.

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    Default Re: In need of some advice asap please

    I do nice things all the time for guys and girls in my life. I dont expect anything in return because only i hold myself to a high standard. If you're a nice guy it'll show. People will tell you without you really asking. People can often smell when someone's looking for odd favors in return for something thats supposed to be nice. I am seconding meteroa's advice.

    I also think you need to be less focused on pu$$y as being the prize. I think you need to focus on hundreds of small goals that will equal to the quality of reward that you this getting hee into bed is worth. Make your first goal to get her to spend some time with you. Dinner or lunch is ideal. Remember because of the phone it doesnt exactly mean she owes you anything. She can return it if she feels its a bad trade. Dont make things a big issue. Hold your ground if you feel disrespected and pull from the deal when you know she crosses the line. Because you have something of value to her now you hold the power. Again i think you should try perfecting your social skills and use them in practice with her. Your goal is to just be the most interesting guy she knows that she's neglected for sometime. The more fun, interesting and playful you are the more comfortable she will be around you and would be ok with you contacting her a little more.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.


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