Re: In need of some advice asap please
I do nice things all the time for guys and girls in my life. I dont expect anything in return because only i hold myself to a high standard. If you're a nice guy it'll show. People will tell you without you really asking. People can often smell when someone's looking for odd favors in return for something thats supposed to be nice. I am seconding meteroa's advice.
I also think you need to be less focused on pu$$y as being the prize. I think you need to focus on hundreds of small goals that will equal to the quality of reward that you this getting hee into bed is worth. Make your first goal to get her to spend some time with you. Dinner or lunch is ideal. Remember because of the phone it doesnt exactly mean she owes you anything. She can return it if she feels its a bad trade. Dont make things a big issue. Hold your ground if you feel disrespected and pull from the deal when you know she crosses the line. Because you have something of value to her now you hold the power. Again i think you should try perfecting your social skills and use them in practice with her. Your goal is to just be the most interesting guy she knows that she's neglected for sometime. The more fun, interesting and playful you are the more comfortable she will be around you and would be ok with you contacting her a little more.
Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.