Would appreciate if some of the more experienced guys on here could chime in on my situation
Saw a girl ive met several times through friends about a month ago, ended up having sex the first night we met at a party....took her number down.
1st time i saw her post sex, my buddy was with her and some girls at a bar and he invited me. We had plans to hang and it was a coincidence that she was there. She ended up having work in the AM, opportunity for going home together wasnt there so we made out and decided on making plans for the following week.
Saw her the following week, had drinks. Were making out and touching each other in the booth...she invites me back to her place....despite wanting to I deny....mainly because i had to be up at like 8am and she lives far + in my past experience, turning down sex after you already had sex is a powerful move
Last night, I hit her up and ask what she has going on for the night. She tells me her friend is hosting a party downtown and to text her if im in the city. My buddys girlfriend and said chick are friends so when i meet up with him, he suggests we go there to which i agree. Me and 5 of my friends get there, i say hi to her but do my own thing with my boys for most of the night drinking and chilling.
She decides to have a huge house party afterwards and like 20 people go back to her house, including me. Literally could not isolate her the whole god damn night because theres people all over. We kiss goodnight and I tell her im out.
Not sure if I should next her or not....on one hand we've already boned, she reacts positively in person but she neverrrrrr facilitates anything...i feel like im doing all the work and making all the requests to hang out.....shes pretty hot and has a huge social circle so i can see her having a princess attitude that "the guy should do all the work" but i dont buy into that BS and im honestly getting sick of it...
i mean i would say shes not really interested but she literally reacts so positively physically every time i see her....why is she inviting me back to her place if she isnt into me?
Day after party,I hit her up for a hungover booty call, she tells me shes tired from last night. I suggest we meet up Thursday and she says "sorry baby i cant thurs" with no resced offer...i didnt reply
I mean theres tons of pros here...we've already had sex, we've been physical when we've seen each other over the past month, she told my friend's girl she wants a friends with benefits kind of thing...
but she doesnt meet me half away at all...
I think im gonna ignore her for a week or so and hit her up again..but not sure this is a good idea? I mean im getting signs of interest when im with her im just kind of put off that she doesnt do any of the things every other girl ive ever slept with does
just not sure how to approach this...ignore her for a week? 2? cut her off completely? just call when i want sex? help guys