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    Default The age-old question: when to call after #-close

    So, after months without game, I've just started pickung up pieces. Before I left my country for the summer, I had reached a certain, let me say Good level of game - night and day. But now, after came back, I felt week and powerless. So I went for a sarge to gain back my confidence.

    I have managed to close an HB7,5 brunette in front of the library. It was a good interaction - even though the approach wasn't perfect - I used the Yosha-stop (when lightly stop her shoulder, stepping not entirely in front of her, bit rather between completely front and next to her, also putting out my hand to stop her), and started talking to ehr in English, because she looked like a foreign chick. Turned out to be hungarian, but it gave a great topic to talk about and coldread her. Anyway, great interaction, ended with #-close.

    Half an hour-1 hour after #-closing I usually send a random, or an optimistic reminder text to her - not forcing reply, only to crave my approach and the interaction into her. But she replied, we started talking through texts - long, funny texts with some depth in them. I made her qualify herself, she gave IOIs etc.

    My question is: how long you usually wait with the asking out call? It's Thursday today, I'm free on Saturday - it would be nice to take her out that day. Is it too soon to call her tommorow, on Friday about it?
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    Default Re: The age-old question: when to call after #-close

    Call whenever you want,don't think about it too much,she either likes you or not.

    If you want to hang out,why would you not call her ?

    The deeper I get into the "game",the more I realize that there is no "game",there is you who either makes a decision or not.

    Game is like Social pressure,although it should be countering it.

    Social pressure makes you believe that you must not approach a girl you don't know.

    Game makes you believe that there is a rule that prevents you from calling a girl on the very first day.

    The real game if you want to call it this way,is when there are no rules,you do whatever the hell you want,all you need is balls,if there is a girl that rejects you,you've got the whole world filled with other girls dying to get hit on.

    Call her,tell her you want to hang out,if she gives you a BS excuse,then screw her,approach 10 more girls.

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    Default Re: The age-old question: when to call after #-close

    Assuming that you'll never see this girl again (if you don't ask her out), you better ask her out rather sooner than later, otherwise she'll forget how good she felt because of your approach.
    The idea of you in her head is still fresh, and if she really gave you IOIs through text, then you call her, flirt a bit and, when you sense the conversation is going very smoothly, cut it off, ask her out and hang up. It's better to leave the scene on a high note mate.

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    Default Re: The age-old question: when to call after #-close

    Always text first.

    Then, the time between getting a number & "asking her out"?... it depends on an unlimited amount of variables.

    I usually waited at least a week before asking a girl out, but that was because I was gaming SEVERAL at once, so there was no rush.
    However; if a particular girl showed an exorbitant amount of interest versus the others, I may have focused more of my attention towards her.

    But to sum it up, I personally would usually wait for about a week. (again, because I had several girls on the line at any given time. So I made it more of a competition between them.)


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    Default Re: The age-old question: when to call after #-close

    I used to wait to text or call a girl. Now I just text a girl within 10 minutes of number closing.

    My text: Hey Natalie, this is Dave just firing off a text to tell you if you're not crazy or have warrants out for your arrest then we should chill some time. If you do have warrants out for your arrest then I am calling it in and collecting the reward money

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    Default Re: The age-old question: when to call after #-close

    I ALWAYS text immediately...
    The biggest difference is, I don't give my name. I make sure they know who it is, based on our prior interactions.



    But solid advice here!!


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    Default Re: The age-old question: when to call after #-close

    My first text (1/2 - 1 hour after #-close) is also some funny random text about the approach or interaction we had. This case, we talked about what we were doing in the library, so it was something like: "I went through the whole collection up and down, oh, and I accidentally destroy an invaluable antique book, but I made it, I found what i was looking for! I hope you managed to study your stuff and succesfully save the pandas!" (She came to study geography and really into environment)

    But I have been recently fieldtesting this one: "You won‘t believe what a hot chick I numberclosed at the library/from tinder etc."

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    Default Re: The age-old question: when to call after #-close

    Sweet!
    I've TOTALLY used that same genre of text... But I tend to push it further than most guys would be comfortable with doing.

    "Hey, I met this really cute, sweet, sexy girl earlier... she has blonde hair, blue eyes & lives on xxxx street. How would you recommend I go about seducing her? I'm totally looking forward to kissing those sweet looking lips. "


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    Default Re: The age-old question: when to call after #-close

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    "Hey, I met this really cute, sweet, sexy girl earlier... she has blonde hair, blue eyes & lives on xxxx street. How would youmrecommend I go about seducing her? I'm totally looking forward to kissing those sweet looking lips. "

    OMG, it's just priceless! T-Mal, you just unable to not drop some knowledge with every single reply! Thanks, I'm gonna definitely use this!

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    Default Re: The age-old question: when to call after #-close

    Experience....


    But I AM older than the average PUA. LOL!!

    Just be bold & playful. That combo is unbeatable.


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