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    Default A serious question about conversation and relating

    Hey everyone,

    After playing around and having some basic conversation with women,(Is it just me or am I doing it wrong?) as conversation flows and she continues talking, once you relate with her, it seems like that topic kind of dies out, they lose interest for it?

    My clue is that its best to move on from topic to topic and never really coming back to that topic again?(especially once you have related it with her?)Or should you come back only at times it has meaning.

    Are there specific things that can help solidify the bond?

    Also if she starts talking about other men and I start talking about other women, that conversation dies out. I see so you should only speak when you want to steer the subject of the conversation otherwise you talking to much about yourself makes her lose interest, keep the conversation subject away from it being about you and only if she directly asks questions about you do you answer them with a specific answer. Giving her iois about her looks seems to categorize me as just some other guy. Your only iois should be to ioi her after she has qualified for you? Using qualifiers and challenges really get her to start working for you and begin the chase? She starts chasing the validation? How do you keep giving it to her the right way?

    I know its there's like a billion questions, just really wondering about this, trying to get deeper into it.

    Thank you sirs

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    Default Re: A serious question about conversation and relating

    Forget convos when you first meet a girl.
    Just flirt... That's all you need in the beginning.

    After you build attraction, the conversations will flow naturally.


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    Default Re: A serious question about conversation and relating

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    Forget convos when you first meet a girl.
    Just flirt... That's all you need in the beginning.

    After you build attraction, the conversations will flow naturally.
    Thanks T-MAl, fun and flirty wins it for phone game? You always make it seem so easy

    What about qualifying them?

    Should the routine stack be:

    challenge --> get her to qualify -->if she does you ioi her

    If she doesn't you iod and then dhv and try again?

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    Default Re: A serious question about conversation and relating

    It takes practice. By that I mean if you don't practice a lot then you'll be stuck in your head trying to think about the routines and not actually be in the moment. Just be in the moment, block everything out as if it's just you and her in the world. I notice that when I start doing that then the girl does it too and you're both in a sort of trance..... but it takes practice, don't over analyze it. Just keep practicing and it'll be second nature before you know it.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: A serious question about conversation and relating

    Quote Originally Posted by wildstorms View Post
    Thanks T-MAl, fun and flirty wins it for phone game? You always make it seem so easy

    What about qualifying them?

    Should the routine stack be:

    challenge --> get her to qualify -->if she does you ioi her

    If she doesn't you iod and then dhv and try again?
    Don't worry about all that shit man. Makes it way too complicated.


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