After playing around and having some basic conversation with women,(Is it just me or am I doing it wrong?) as conversation flows and she continues talking, once you relate with her, it seems like that topic kind of dies out, they lose interest for it?
My clue is that its best to move on from topic to topic and never really coming back to that topic again?(especially once you have related it with her?)Or should you come back only at times it has meaning.
Are there specific things that can help solidify the bond?
Also if she starts talking about other men and I start talking about other women, that conversation dies out. I see so you should only speak when you want to steer the subject of the conversation otherwise you talking to much about yourself makes her lose interest, keep the conversation subject away from it being about you and only if she directly asks questions about you do you answer them with a specific answer. Giving her iois about her looks seems to categorize me as just some other guy. Your only iois should be to ioi her after she has qualified for you? Using qualifiers and challenges really get her to start working for you and begin the chase? She starts chasing the validation? How do you keep giving it to her the right way?
I know its there's like a billion questions, just really wondering about this, trying to get deeper into it.
Thank you sirs