Im 32 years old and she is 22 years old with a child. We have been dating for a couple of months. The first month she would call me all the time,text me all the time, want to see me all the time. The second month less texting, didnt want to hang out as much, would make lots of excuses why she couldnt see me. I talked to her about it and she said she didnt realize what she was doing and was sorry. Things didnt get better and we would make plans and she would constantly cancel at the last minute.It was also hard to get a hold of her as she wouldnt answer phone calls a lot and wouldnt call me back til the next day. I didnt like it and I told her i didnt want to see her anymore because i felt like I was putting in a lot of effort and time and making her a priority while she wasnt. She's always telling me how much she cares about me yet her actions dont align with her words. She said said she was sorry again and we kept things going. Well for the next week things remained the same and then she told me she didnt want to see me anymore because she said she was too busy with her child and job and family etc. Well somehow we agreed to remain together and work things out. Now I only see her maybe once every 10 days and she only lives 15 minutes away. We used to talk on the phone several times a day and now maybe only once maybe twice a day and these are like 5 minute conversations,textin g has also completely stopped. The times i do see her we have a really good time and when we talk on the phone shes telling me how much she cares about me but obviously something is wrong. Ive already backed off from calling her as much so my question is what do you think is going on with her and what course of actions can i do to have her invest more and put more effort in the realtionship like she was doing in the beginning?