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    Default Need help with angry girl (via text)

    Hey guys, got a situation here I could use some advice on. Picked this girl up at a club a few weeks ago. Turns out she lives in a suburb that takes 20mins to an hour to get to depending on traffic which is bad cause I dont have no car. Anyway, ran some excellent text game on her and we ended up farking on the first date. Second date a week later was last night. Turns out she's on her period so we end up just farking around and making out. I kinda didn't even mind that much cause I like this one. Now we agreed that she would take the train in and I would drive her home at the end of the night but she ended up sleeping over. It kinda just happened. I was sort of hummming an hawing about it cuase I was pretty tired and she didn't seem to mind staying. Anyway, walked her to the train station, kissed her bye and everything seemed ok.

    her

    You know what's absolutely splendid annnnd just making this whoooole mission home wonderful?!!!
    Today at 9:02 AM

    The fact that the next bus is in forty minutes 😐😕
    Today at 9:02 AM

    me

    Ohh my god lol no way. My boss isn't even in we could have just gotten breakfast or something
    Today at 9:04 AM

    her

    . . .even better
    Today at 9:05 AM

    I should've killed you last night haha
    Today at 9:05 AM

    me (referring to the fact that she wouldn't blow me the night b4)

    Lol that would've accomplished nothing. You should have done something entirely different!
    Today at 9:24 AM

    her

    If I did it wouldnt change anything either would it have!?!!
    Today at 9:25 AM

    Also if I had killed you I would've been able to sleep longer haha
    Today at 9:27 AM

    So I mean it would've accomplished a little something
    Today at 9:27 AM

    me

    Lol I don't like this line of thinking
    Today at 9:48 AM

    her

    Yo I don't like that I'm missioning home right now
    Today at 9:49 AM

    me

    I don't like that I'm working right now either. Sacrifices bud lol
    Today at 9:50 AM

    her

    Sacrifices eh!?!! Oh I can go off about that but I wont
    Today at 9:52 AM

    me

    Lol don't be bitter. Its not cute
    Today at 10:02 AM

    her

    Wow u think I care about being cute!?
    Today at 10:02 AM

    me

    Well cute is attractive and I'm sure you'd rather not be unattractive lol
    Today at 12:55 PM

    Did you get home ok?
    Today at 12:56 PM

    her

    Well I don't care attractive in your eyes anymore..but do u want the version of me getting home that doesn't make you look like an asshole?
    Today at 1:28 PM

    me

    I was going to drive you home but you delayed!! What happened??
    Today at 1:45 PM

    her

    What do you mean!?!!
    Today at 1:56 PM

    Last night!?
    Today at 1:56 PM

    me

    Lol I got out of bed and everything at like 12:20 and you didn't seem to want to go that bad!
    Today at 2:05 PM

    her

    Hmmm well I don't think I wanna be dealing with someone that can't hold up the end of their bargain
    Today at 2:37 PM

    me

    Heyyyy no reason to be a negative Nancy babe. Listen, I had every intention of driving you home but I genuinely thought you wanted to stay. I even apologized this morning despite that. If that's not good enough for you then I guess you're not my type...
    Today at 3:15 PM

    ____________________ ________

    The apology is referring to when I dropped her off... I felt bad at the time. No reply after my last msg.

    Anyway, I think I may have invested myself a little too much into this broad cause this shit has me thinkin a bit too much. A little shocked at how quickly this girl got negative....

    Did I fark this up? Im curious what I might have done wrong here. If she doesn't reply do I call her tomorrow or do I just have to forget about her?


    Thanks boys.

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    Default Re: Need help with angry girl (via text)

    You kept dragging a dead horse. Should have acknowledged and moved on. The way you ended the text left your chances of fixing things with less options. The window is closing simply based on how you assume you both dont make a good fit.

    I think the only way to mend this to own up to your mistakes. By that i mean yor mistake of dragging on the miscommunication. Personally i dont think its that big of a deal unless you're both sour people. Take responsibility by acknowledging what you said wasnt sincere and move on. Next time dont drag on the problem by not taking the responsiblity even if she's not own up. Try to ignore fighting unless its unavoidable. You should be sincere if you want to mend things. Then consider starting from scratch to get her to want to see you again.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Need help with angry girl (via text)

    Yea I see what you're saying. I needed to acknowledge I farked up sincerely and change the subject as quickly as possible so as not to dwell on the negativity.

    Thanks for the advice. My follow up question would be, do you think I should send another text or would a phone call be more appropriate? I don't want to seem desperate to mend the situation.

    Edit: I wrote up a text I might send. I'd appreciate your thoughts.

    Hey little lady... So you know I'm a bit of a joker and I don't take shit very seriously right. Sometimes that ends up with me misunderstanding people's emotions, especially through text.

    Yesterday I was thinking this girl is overreacting, fuck this. But I actually looked back and you had a legit reason to be angry and instead of acknowledging it I brushed it off. It was a dick move and I'm sorry.

    I'll come hang in your hood next time. We can go cow tipping or something lol it'll be fun.

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    Default Re: Need help with angry girl (via text)

    Quote Originally Posted by chr1s7ian View Post
    Yea I see what you're saying. I needed to acknowledge I farked up sincerely and change the subject as quickly as possible so as not to dwell on the negativity.

    Thanks for the advice. My follow up question would be, do you think I should send another text or would a phone call be more appropriate? I don't want to seem desperate to mend the situation.

    Edit: I wrote up a text I might send. I'd appreciate your thoughts.

    Hey little lady... So you know I'm a bit of a joker and I don't take shit very seriously right. Sometimes that ends up with me misunderstanding people's emotions, especially through text.

    Yesterday I was thinking this girl is overreacting, fark this. But I actually looked back and you had a legit reason to be angry and instead of acknowledging it I brushed it off. It was a d1ck move and I'm sorry.

    I'll come hang in your hood next time. We can go cow tipping or something lol it'll be fun.
    Take this off: "It was a d1ck move and I'm sorry."

    No need to self-deprecate yourself, neither to say that you're sorry. If you really want to say that you're sorry, simply say "I made a mistake". But since you already said that, no need to repeat yourself.

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    Default Re: Need help with angry girl (via text)

    Quote Originally Posted by lenric View Post
    Take this off: "It was a d1ck move and I'm sorry."

    No need to self-deprecate yourself, neither to say that you're sorry. If you really want to say that you're sorry, simply say "I made a mistake". But since you already said that, no need to repeat yourself.
    Alright that makes sense, thanks. I think I'm gonna give her a call first and if she doesn't answer I'll send that text...

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    Default Re: Need help with angry girl (via text)

    I disagree. Text her only.

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    Default Re: Need help with angry girl (via text)

    Quote Originally Posted by lenric View Post
    I disagree. Text her only.

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    Hmm ya. Comes off as a little too much eh. Might as well keep the issue confined to text.

    I'll let you know the result! Thanks.

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    Default Re: Need help with angry girl (via text)

    Thanks guys. She responded and is even apologizing for getting so emotional!! Lol

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    Default Re: Need help with angry girl (via text)

    Yea... If you are sincere about your apology then you should apologize with the option that least amount of risk. Giving her the option will give you both closure. It also leaves the ball in her court if she wants to pursue if she's sold on who you are and if youre worth it.

    On a side note--i would refrain from "hey little lady" in your apology text... It throws off the attention to detail that you messed up. In some ways it sounds like youre trying to be cute and it might cone off as disingenuous. When you text or talk--make sure it sounds like you because in reality it is you talking to her
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.


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