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    Default Attention whore?

    So I got this girls number, we went out once and it went really well - built lots of rapport, made out, had her sweating me hard by the end of the night...couldn't get into her apartment and close when I dropped her off though. No boggie, figured I'd close on the next date. Only there hasn't been a second date. She texts me a lot, I do my best to respond but I don't have a lot of time during the day. She's really flirty, and I can tell she gets turned on when I frame the conversation towards sex.

    So that's all fine...but twice now I've tried to set up a second date to no avail. She's not even flaking per se, because she's not agreeing to the date in the first place. She just totally ignored the fact that I even attempted to set one up and would respond back with another text later changing the subject. So I immediately assume she's not interested and just stop responding. Then she'll text me hours later something like "hey sexy, laying in bed thinking about you".

    So I'm thinking that she's probably just an attention whore that wants to be chased, right? Or I suppose it's possible that she has a boyfriend too. Either way, I should just cut bait and run, right?

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    Default Re: Attention whore?

    From the looks of it, you failed to seduce her on the first date.
    When you guys say "oh, such an awesome date. We built loads of rapport, etc, etc, etc", I always think "ok. But did you seduce her and fuck her?". And then I go right to the end of the text and I read, between the lines: "no fuck."

    Ergo, I assume that you failed to seduce her, and she made you an orbiter. She's using you to feel sexy, desired, or whatever. You're like her donkey and she's holding a carrot, which is her vagina, but she'll never give it to you. She's just enjoying seeing you pursuing her.

    What can donkeys do in a situation like this? To be (or fake) disinterested.
    So when she talks about sex, or being wet thinking about you, say something that conveys disinterest. Something like: "oh you're really in bed thinking about me? Then get up, make a tuna sandwich and bring it to me, I'm so hungryyyy!"

    Or simply change the subject.

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    Default Re: Attention whore?

    Yeah that's pretty much what I figured she was doing...just using me for attention. She actually just texted me again a few mins ago saying "hey handsome what's up"...part of me wants to keep her around just to work on my text game, which is admittedly lacking. The other part of me wants to address the fact that she's been ignoring my attempts to set up a date and that she's wasting my time, but that would be a total AFC move right?

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    Default Re: Attention whore?

    Kind of

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    Default Re: Attention whore?

    Kind of? Is that one of those things where depending on how it's worded it can go either way?

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    Default Re: Attention whore?

    No man, it means you're over thinking and acting like a 14 year-old girl.

    If you act disinterested, you're already addressing the fact that you'll no longer support her bad behavior. If you send her a text telling her that, you're being beta. Copy that?

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    Default Re: Attention whore?

    Roger that...like I said, my text game needs serious improvement, I'm working on it.


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