Hey guys, I'm new to flirting and dating in general. I'm a 21 year old with aspergers and didn't start to really try and socialize with people till the past few years. Before that I was just a social outcast and would barely talk to people. Since then I've definitely improved but I'm seriously uncalibrated in social situations and it screws me up when trying to pick up girls.
I've been hit on a lot but I just can't seem to keep girls interested when there is another attractive dude around the corner with better game. Girls are generally receptive when talking to me but I say awkward things to then that sets them off.
I'm trying to improve by getting onto tinder and dating girls. I have so many matches but with the vast majority of them I fail to get girls to want to hang out or date. Mostly because I don't know how to attract them.
So far I've been on 2 legitimate tinder dates out of 40 hb7-9 matches.
The first date with an hb7.5 went well because I got to use a lot of kino but ruined it when we were about to have sex. We were playing arm wrestling in my car in an isolated location and long story short I said "let's fuck " she knew I was inexperienced after that and said we'll just have a highschool make out session.
The second date with an hb8 was more like just a friendly get together at a coffee shop and building rapport because I didn't know how to use kino sitting and we had a 2 hr long convo. Nothing flirtatious or sexual was spoken about because I have no idea how to do so. What really dissapoints me is that as soon as I picked the girl up to take her to the coffee shop she got into this convo with using lotion and she was rubbing my hand as an example. She literally wanted me but I failed to escalate because I have no idea how to. The date just ended with me hugging her good bye.
What should I read or watch to progress?