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    SupremeSteve is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Should I bother with this girl or move on?

    I'm new to dating and dealing with girls and people in general after deciding to come out of my shell. I'm 21 and have aspergers so I'm a bit uncalibrated in social situations.

    I've recently been using Tinder as a way to get set up with dates. I've managed to have a few but I know I can do better because I get girls interested and I do something wrong that sets them off.

    I have one match that I went on a coffee date with and it was more like a friendly date because all we did was build rapport and have a few laughs. She brought up the fact that she was going to be at her house watching her pets as her parents are gone over the weekend. We talked for 2 hours and I told her I had to go so I drove her back to her place and hugged her before she got out of the car. She was very receptive texting the next day and she asked what I was doing the next day and I told her I was busy. I asked her what she was doing and she brought back up that she was watching pets at her house. I didn't text her till two days later and asked if she wanted to do margaritas over the weekend. She said yes with a smiley face and I was too direct by saying cool, lets do your place. address? and then she said she wishes and I sort of hit on her for being a tease.

    I didn't talk to her for two weeks. I was at her college with a friend and I was kind of drunk and texting girls in the area seeing whats going on. I texted her around midnight saying whats up and she responded almost instantly saying she wasn't out because she has to study for a test the next morning. She asked me if I was going to be around the next day and I told her no, going to a concert at xxxxx. I texted her later in the afternoon on halloween and asked her if she was celebrating after acing her test. She said she was going cray that night. I decided I was going back to her college to party with a friend instead of the concert but I didn't tell her which may have been a mistake. She was still receptive texting and I was teasing her about her costume, continued to text and talk about mine. The last text I sent to her was around 10 saying where da party at, I've got my sidekick with me. No response...

    It's been a week since that happened. Should I even bother trying to hang out with her?

    From what I see her asking what I was doing the next day from the previous texts would be an IOI as well as responding to whats up instantly after not talking to her for 2 weeks.

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    Default Re: Should I bother with this girl or move on?

    Sounds like shes definetly interested. Look at how receptive she is when you are busy... Thats a clear sign she's interested. Start closing the gap before she starts to second guess herself
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Should I bother with this girl or move on?

    Quote Originally Posted by artandale View Post
    Sounds like shes definetly interested. Look at how receptive she is when you are busy... Thats a clear sign she's interested. Start closing the gap before she starts to second guess herself
    If I haven't texted her in a week should I try to set something up ahead of time or just be spontaneous about it? Also, if we haven't really talked about anything sexual should I try to escalate via text or just try to meet up?

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    Default Re: Should I bother with this girl or move on?

    Never escalate in text until you've had sex. It gives her too much too think about and can backfire.

    Text so you can meet up. Call so you can meet up. Never just text to just say hi. Meet up then escalate for kiss and if she wants to do more make her the agressor by telling her things like you normally never do xxxx while being genuinely surprised.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Should I bother with this girl or move on?

    Quote Originally Posted by artandale View Post
    Never escalate in text until you've had sex. It gives her too much too think about and can backfire.

    Text so you can meet up. Call so you can meet up. Never just text to just say hi. Meet up then escalate for kiss and if she wants to do more make her the agressor by telling her things like you normally never do xxxx while being genuinely surprised.
    What do you mean by telling her things like I'd normally never do?

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    Default Re: Should I bother with this girl or move on?

    Whats so confusing here? Keep it simple no sex talk.... You cant flirt a little with implied ideas that shes the aggressor but never push for any real sex talk till after you f-close first
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.


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