I'm new to dating and dealing with girls and people in general after deciding to come out of my shell. I'm 21 and have aspergers so I'm a bit uncalibrated in social situations.
I've recently been using Tinder as a way to get set up with dates. I've managed to have a few but I know I can do better because I get girls interested and I do something wrong that sets them off.
I have one match that I went on a coffee date with and it was more like a friendly date because all we did was build rapport and have a few laughs. She brought up the fact that she was going to be at her house watching her pets as her parents are gone over the weekend. We talked for 2 hours and I told her I had to go so I drove her back to her place and hugged her before she got out of the car. She was very receptive texting the next day and she asked what I was doing the next day and I told her I was busy. I asked her what she was doing and she brought back up that she was watching pets at her house. I didn't text her till two days later and asked if she wanted to do margaritas over the weekend. She said yes with a smiley face and I was too direct by saying cool, lets do your place. address? and then she said she wishes and I sort of hit on her for being a tease.
I didn't talk to her for two weeks. I was at her college with a friend and I was kind of drunk and texting girls in the area seeing whats going on. I texted her around midnight saying whats up and she responded almost instantly saying she wasn't out because she has to study for a test the next morning. She asked me if I was going to be around the next day and I told her no, going to a concert at xxxxx. I texted her later in the afternoon on halloween and asked her if she was celebrating after acing her test. She said she was going cray that night. I decided I was going back to her college to party with a friend instead of the concert but I didn't tell her which may have been a mistake. She was still receptive texting and I was teasing her about her costume, continued to text and talk about mine. The last text I sent to her was around 10 saying where da party at, I've got my sidekick with me. No response...
It's been a week since that happened. Should I even bother trying to hang out with her?
From what I see her asking what I was doing the next day from the previous texts would be an IOI as well as responding to whats up instantly after not talking to her for 2 weeks.