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Thread: Quick experts I need some advice, pronto!

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    Default Quick experts I need some advice, pronto!

    Okay, so I am visiting Barcelona. A Swedish girl I am friends with from travelling lives here. Set up a meeting a week ago. Was initially a maybe, then confirmed a few days ago, then confirmed time etc yesterday. This is AFTER I sent her a damn hot pic of myself in the buff.

    One hour before, she messages me to tell me that she has to help a buddy with something and can we meet later on, or "today" during the day - her mother is visiting. And she had today off from work too.

    I say "sure, I'm easy, I'm going out anyway, oh, and busy today going to the beach." We're messaging on Facebook all this, as I lost my damn phone.

    Anyhow, waited to see if she would message back, and subsequently discovered she wasn't even checking her messages/didn't check them again after the cancellation, until four hours later, just gone midnight.

    I was pissed - I was up for going out, meeting her, seeing Barcelona, and had my night spoilt by the last minute cancellation.

    She didn't message me back last night, or this AM, and at 4pm today sent her a simple message "okay." My feelings are that she is mucking me around and not worth the bother. So unfriended her and decided that was that.

    Just got a message from her to say she is dining with mother, and what am I doing?

    No commitment to meeting up, etc, no apology, I am her for just two more nights, which she knows.

    So, freeze her out? Something else? What? Don't think she realises I cut her off yet.
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    Default Re: Quick experts I need some advice, pronto!

    Response:

    "You should have messaged me last night or today. I leave Sunday. Not up for having my time wasted."

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    Default Re: Quick experts I need some advice, pronto!

    absolutely by no mean do you freeze her out bro. Your all the way in Barcelona to see her. Just go out and have some fun. Look to score and connect with the women out there. if she decides to keep her plans with you then arrange a 9pm or later date with her. Basically drinks and good convo preferably close to your hotel. I suspect she thinks your were going to flake on her with your "going to the beach comment". Maybe try a "just finished site seeing, it beautiful out here'' message. Followed by "I have a few hours free tonight MEET me for a drink". Command dont ask. Thats a very covert way to display some alpha male qualities. If she comes she comes, what ever you do dont display anger, just let her know you had a great time anyway, and maybe you and her will connect some other time. Now go out and bang something in the meantime bro your in Barcelona!
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    Default Re: Quick experts I need some advice, pronto!

    Anyone else have advice?

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    Default Re: Quick experts I need some advice, pronto!

    Just sent this:

    "I'm looking to spend time and have fun with someone who is enthusiastically looking forward to seeing me. Not someone who makes arrangements, cancels last minute, then suggests alternatives and fails to follow through. My time is valuable and I don't dig spending it confirming plans that don't pan out. It's not considerate and it's not respectful. If you want to make it up to me get in touch TODAY. It's my last night in Barcelona and I'm going out to have FUN."

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    Default Re: Quick experts I need some advice, pronto!

    She won't be with you, because she thinks she her value is higher than yours, and you confirmed it with your behavior.

    Yeah, she flaked on you and so on, but guess what? You're in Barcelona dude, a freaking amazing city with 2 million girls, why are you creating a drama about one of them?

    Enjoy your time there, go out and meet new people. Good thing is, you can do and say pretty much whatever you want, since you won't be seeing those people again in your life.


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