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Thread: Hurted a girl really bad

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    Default Hurted a girl really bad

    Long story short:

    I am constantly gaming other girls, improving myself and having fun and I do not have the "oneitis" thing.

    However I have that one ex-girlfriend, that is somehow special to me. The girl is truly loving me and I find in her a lot of things I like. Not only the looks.

    Unfortunately, back in the days I did not know how to handle a relationship and hurted her really bad. She invested a lot in our relationship and I was constantly ignoring it. This ruined the trust. She contacts me really often and even met twice recently. Everything was going well, but I did act bad again... and now she is sad.

    I really feel bad about hurting her so many times, I do not find my behaviour towards her manly in any way.

    Since I can meet her whenever I want, I truly feel that it is best to just go and look her straight in the eyes and tell her how I fill about what I did and what feelings do I have. I do not expect this to fix anything, nor will I do it to "buy" her reaction or attention.

    I would like to know what do you guys think.

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    Default Re: Hurted a girl really bad

    If you want it go for it. Just make sure if it ends again on your terms that you leave her better off than when you met her.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Hurted a girl really bad

    It's not about fishing for a reaction or attention. It's about owning up to your mistakes. Hurting people that care about you tends to happen more often to most people but what sets you apart is to admit you were wrong and going about rectifying the situation. So yes say what you need to say and if you feel like you are going to hurt her again then artandale is right in saying leave her better off than when you met her.


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