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Thread: Thought I was in but no kiss! How to speed up the kiss in a club?

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    Default Thought I was in but no kiss! How to speed up the kiss in a club?

    I was out in a club talking to this Spanish girl where the conversation was going well. There had already been a good IOI in the strong eye contact she gave me (which is why I went up to her), and during the conversation there was heavy kino from me which was being accepted well. We were both standing up on the dance floor and the kino included holding her hips, holding her hand whilst talking and also spinning her around at another point later on.
    After around 5-10 minutes with me thinking I'm definitely in there and not to waste time (as not making a move and being a pussy used to be my biggest problem for years), I thought "fuck it, I should just go for it". I said something like "you know, I've never kissed a Spanish girl" (that line has worked before for whatever nationality lol!) and looked at her lips and moved in closer. Can't remember exactly what she said but she backed off. Conversation continued well and a bit later after that, she said she was going to go back to her friend who was by himself. I got her number and will contact her to arrange a date etc, but I'm wondering what I could have done at the time to make out with her.
    What can one do when there are clear IOI's with a girl but the kiss is just not forthcoming as it's too early etc? Is it just to be patient, keep going and getting to know her better etc, or are there any specific routines that can speed things up in this situation? Though, of course, some girls will make out with a guy within 5 minutes!

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    Default Re: Thought I was in but no kiss! How to speed up the kiss in a club?

    When she gives you a red-light after so many green-lights take two steps back and work forwards again. Acknowledge that you went in too early. This means you still intended it to happen. She just wasn't ready. By saying you acknowledge it--she now knows better. So where this leaves you is when and if she pulls back a second time you know one of two things... You should stop entirely and ask whats up-because all of the signs are there. Two you can just move on and not waste your time.
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    Default Re: Thought I was in but no kiss! How to speed up the kiss in a club?

    you'll need a whole lot of KINO get her use to your hands being on her. start with the finger tips work your way in. Secondly EYE CONTACT, this will build a shyt load of sexual tension between you 2. you'll can take steps you have to do at the same time. 1.build with the kino this should never stop. 2. establish and maintain eye contact though out the interaction. once the kino gets to the stomach or the chin unchallenged go for the kiss. *also you should smiling and having fun. Every one wants to bang her. Who will offer her fun. "i never kissed a spanish girl' is always a bad idea bro. its disqualifying what ever your faced with you have to approach it as if you've been there before. Cheesy but you might as well say your lips look almost as soft as mine. Also it would help if you isolate her in a darker area of the club when your Kiss Clossing be social norms say she shouldn't be kissing a guy she just met. If she feels she can get away with it, she more inclined to do it. **Happy hunting bro**
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    Default Re: Thought I was in but no kiss! How to speed up the kiss in a club?

    Quote Originally Posted by DeviantMethod View Post
    you'll need a whole lot of KINO get her use to your hands being on her. start with the finger tips work your way in. Secondly EYE CONTACT, this will build a shyt load of sexual tension between you 2. you'll can take steps you have to do at the same time. 1.build with the kino this should never stop. 2. establish and maintain eye contact though out the interaction. once the kino gets to the stomach or the chin unchallenged go for the kiss. *also you should smiling and having fun. Every one wants to bang her. Who will offer her fun. "i never kissed a spanish girl' is always a bad idea bro. its disqualifying what ever your faced with you have to approach it as if you've been there before. Cheesy but you might as well say your lips look almost as soft as mine. Also it would help if you isolate her in a darker area of the club when your Kiss Clossing be social norms say she shouldn't be kissing a guy she just met. If she feels she can get away with it, she more inclined to do it. **Happy hunting bro**
    Thanks, I really like this answer, especially the part about the eye contact. This is something that I can definitely work on and should increase the chances of the kiss close when done well.


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