I was out in a club talking to this Spanish girl where the conversation was going well. There had already been a good IOI in the strong eye contact she gave me (which is why I went up to her), and during the conversation there was heavy kino from me which was being accepted well. We were both standing up on the dance floor and the kino included holding her hips, holding her hand whilst talking and also spinning her around at another point later on.
After around 5-10 minutes with me thinking I'm definitely in there and not to waste time (as not making a move and being a pussy used to be my biggest problem for years), I thought "fuck it, I should just go for it". I said something like "you know, I've never kissed a Spanish girl" (that line has worked before for whatever nationality lol!) and looked at her lips and moved in closer. Can't remember exactly what she said but she backed off. Conversation continued well and a bit later after that, she said she was going to go back to her friend who was by himself. I got her number and will contact her to arrange a date etc, but I'm wondering what I could have done at the time to make out with her.
What can one do when there are clear IOI's with a girl but the kiss is just not forthcoming as it's too early etc? Is it just to be patient, keep going and getting to know her better etc, or are there any specific routines that can speed things up in this situation? Though, of course, some girls will make out with a guy within 5 minutes!