Hey everyone! Long time stalker, first time poster.
To get some advice I need to tell you my little story with this hb10.
A few weeks ago a friend of mine introduced her to me by giving me her phone number. Started talking through texting and occasional flirty phone call for 2 weeks, she lives very far away from me (3 hour ride to get to her town). So that's why I had to text and call for so long.
We finally set up a date to meet. I went to her town with the excuse of having to resolve some paperwork problems related to my career (doctor). It was a lie but I didn't want for her to think that I did a 3 hour ride solely to meet her.
We finally meet. Go to dinner, have a great time. Escalated properly physically (although no kiss-close). Talked about common interests, relationships pov, Past LTRs. i went a little overboard saying that i had a crush on her (with a playful smile) every time she said something i really digged.
After the date was finished we agreed to see each other again the next week. the same night i tell her i had a really nice time, and my visits to her town were going to be a lot more often, to wich she replied "thanks for everything"
Next day she texts me to have a nice ride back home. pretty standard, no excitement or signs of interest, i said thanks and asked her how was her day going and from that point on she started replying with one word texts. i decided to end the convo before it seemed i was reaching out too much for her.
2 days after the date i send her a pretty cheesy message around 10pm saying:
ME: "random message to let you know you are in my head and it has me smiling"
Hb10: Heyy!!, awwwww
ME: Whats wrong?
hb10: well nothing. i just didnt know i could make someone so happy.
ME: Well thats good to have me smiling, especially if i want to do the same thing to you.
ME: Damn, you are pretty dry, you dont give me any signs of attraction whatsoever.
Her: Yeah, im like that, a bit complicated .
i believe i messed up with that last message and made a decision to freeze her out for 3-4 days.
Brief story about her: all she knows is LTRs (wich is why im digging this girl so much, im done having the occasional hookups). she broke up with her last BF 8 months ago from a 3 year relationship. she sounde pretty over him so i dont think it becomes a factor in my course of action.
Started the freeze-out 1 day ago with the hopes of she texting me before the 4 days deadline i established. if she does not reply ill initiate contact with a text, or call? havent really thought what to say or act like.
I really appreciate any advice on how to handle this situation.
Thanks a lot for reading my long ass-text and taking the time to reply!