Here is a brief rundown:
The girl in question is my best friend for about a year and a half.
We have great chemistry, text daily, hang out almost daily. She has a history of bad relationships and ended one very recently. On top of that she just lost her job.
As you would expect she feels like crap and frequently turns to me for confort. She told me herself I'm the person she knows better and who knows her better. She also told me she doesn't even want to meet new people because of all the people who desapointed her in the past, and we hang out all the time so it's kind of a golden oportunity.
Now, the bad part. She responds well to some kino but sooner or later always puts a stop on it. There was some atraction when we first met, she responded better to kino back then but I failed to act on it.
Now, we have a lot more confort and mutual trust and I get the clear feeling she is afraid to lose that. She told me she "is not datable" always messes up her relationships and ends up being hurt, so it's like she believes she will lose me if there ever is something between us.
So, a) how do I spark some phisical atraction and b) how do I make her see I'm really intersted and I don't want to just fuck her and dump her?
Thank you for reading