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Thread: Best friends, I want more, she feels lonely. what to do?

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    Default Best friends, I want more, she feels lonely. what to do?

    Hello, gentleman.

    Here is a brief rundown:

    The girl in question is my best friend for about a year and a half.

    We have great chemistry, text daily, hang out almost daily. She has a history of bad relationships and ended one very recently. On top of that she just lost her job.

    As you would expect she feels like crap and frequently turns to me for confort. She told me herself I'm the person she knows better and who knows her better. She also told me she doesn't even want to meet new people because of all the people who desapointed her in the past, and we hang out all the time so it's kind of a golden oportunity.

    Now, the bad part. She responds well to some kino but sooner or later always puts a stop on it. There was some atraction when we first met, she responded better to kino back then but I failed to act on it.

    Now, we have a lot more confort and mutual trust and I get the clear feeling she is afraid to lose that. She told me she "is not datable" always messes up her relationships and ends up being hurt, so it's like she believes she will lose me if there ever is something between us.

    So, a) how do I spark some phisical atraction and b) how do I make her see I'm really intersted and I don't want to just fuck her and dump her?

    Thank you for reading

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    Default Re: Best friends, I want more, she feels lonely. what to do?

    You sexual chemistry and sexual tension between you to. Dont quit with the kino,
    Make sure you maintain eye contact with her all the time. I cannot stress how important that is bro. Eye contact is a must. The fact that she says she not date-able scares me. It sound like she is waiting to be banged by a alpha if you ask me."she messes all her relationships up'' how bro? you should know these things. As far as you farking her. you need her to see you as a potential lover. That should be your goal. She should say to you she wants a relationship. in fact you need her to for the polarity to be right between you to. Try not to be overcome by LMR. Seriously escalate the kino between you 2. Then grab her by the nipples and pull her to you. I feel this is right there for you to have. You just need to have the balls to take it. happy hunting bro.
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    Default Re: Best friends, I want more, she feels lonely. what to do?

    Women always think that they are the ones who fuck up. And who cares about what they say anyway? Believe in their actions, not their words.

    Concerning your case, I have the feeling that she sees you as just a friend, her brother, since you're the one she goes when she needs to blow off the steam. So your chances of hooking up with her are slightly above 0.

    Anyway, flirt with her. Tease her. Whenever she brings drama to the conversation, change the subject and keep on with the flirting.

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    True indeed know a women by her actions. not by her words.
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    Default Re: Best friends, I want more, she feels lonely. what to do?

    Use kyle's Friend Zone Slayer guide..... Learn it and live by it
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.


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