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Thread: Was breaking up with her a good idea?

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    Default Was breaking up with her a good idea?

    I am just wondering how this was a good idea. I had her wrapped around my finger. For 3 months solid I ALWAYS got a response to my text messages, I hung out with her anytime I wanted. I could have her whenever I wanted her. Granted she was withholding sex I wasn't necessarily trying to sleep with her after all she wasn't really my type.


    Still though we had a lot of fun in 3 months and being my longest relationship ever the break up (generate from Pick Up in a Club) was the worst ever for me.

    Granted I can't get her back now she is a cold fish and she won't talk to me ever again.

    During the break up when she was still trying to work things out she said "we were supposed to be friends forever" so why did you guys say breaking up was a good idea exactly?

    I took you guys advice she was playing me. I would pay for her concert tickets or meals and she would run off with other guys. Even on FB she would constantly flirt.

    Still though after the FB she never posts anymore like she used to "Anyone want to go to lunch?" "What's everyone's plans for the weekend?" "Who is going bowling?" granted I realize these posts were to test me and to make me jealous I was tired of dealing with it. Still though she said she was heartbroken so why did I break up with her again?


    She was starting to come around and the last two times we hung out she stopped flirting with other guys because I was stepping it up but she was still acting like that on FB. So remind me again why did I do this? BTW you guys told me I should break up with her but now I am all alone till next Summer and she took a huge time investment to just throw that away. May not break up again since I could be hanging out with her anytime I wanted but instead I am sitting at home alone because you guys said it was good for me. I am confused how did this help me????
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    Default Re: Was breaking up with her a good idea?

    hey bro i hear you.. you need to know that what you did was right. this girl was using you. what she was posting on Facebook wasn't a test to you. it was her extending her self for the chance to use others. Based on what you say its not hard to see this was not a good girl. You were actually alone the whole time. its good that you gone now. You should keep moving and not look back. Question why do you need her to be your friend? she wasn't having sex with you. You dated her for 3 months you say and watched her ''run off with other guys''. how did you benefit from your relationship with her? you have to be careful because girls like this one will chew you up and spit you out. Your there stuck in the friend zone while she ran around and flirted with alpha's. Hate to tell you but she probably got bang by a few of them also. Alpha don't take shit they dish it.
    That being said she did what she needed to stay in their company. At this point
    in my life I couldn't imagine dating a girl that i wanted getting no where, then watching her let other men have the sex with her i should be getting. I know you feel bad. Reading this post a feel bad for you. I feel your pain and can relate to it more than you know. I have been there before. At this point your at take your self respect and keep stepping. Why does she want to be your friend? I would have to say only to use you. I seen this before. You were right to leave her alone. keep this mind. Time invested becomes time wasted. So in the future try and make wiser investments that will net you the return that you want both emotionally and physically. Hope this was helpful to you bro.
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    Default Re: Was breaking up with her a good idea?

    It's actually a lot worse than that. She said gangbangs were okay, she said she was in a gangbang, she said she slept with the dirtiest DJ in town and was proud of it. She flirted with every guy on the planet. I would buy her a concert ticket and she would bump and grind with some other dude the whole time tell me "she is going to the bathroom" and left with him and then came back with a drink and I heard them talking and he said he would call her. I knew she gave her number out and tried to hide it from me.

    She said we were friends but she was controlling and said I cannot be friends with her "hot" friends on Facebook and that "if I knew what was good for me" I would block them. But then we would go to a House Party and she would throw her scarf around some guy when I just went to take a nap and wouldn't stop flirting with him and wouldn't flirt with me like that.

    Then we would both sleep in her bed together but I knew where I farked up. Our first night together at a house party she came in for a kiss and I rejected her. This was a downward spiral but she gave me plenty of chances. She asked "do you want a Girlfiriend" I said "Yes" but didn't act like it cuz I never tried to make out with her or sleep with her. She didn't turn me on like that.

    So then we were alone at a concert and some dude asked "Are you her Boyfriend?" I said no. These small little mishaps drove us further and further away and so I think me not taking charge caused her to slowly flirt heavily with guys as this went on. I failed mostly in the beginning so the intense flirting happened in my face and she set up dates with other dudes in my face which pissed me off.

    Then she would post those things on Facebook throwing herself out there like she was as free as a bird and it confused the hell out of me since she didn't act like that before we met or after. She has gone back into hiding again and made herself more unavailable. She was really doing it on purpose. Then I would try to kiss her and she would turn away. I knew it was because in turn I turned her down and let things go downhill.

    In truth I wasn't crazy about her and had no feelings I only did it for the experience of being in a relationship with a hot chick. It was my longest relationship ever and the break up for her was unbearable. She texted me all day nonstop begging, pleading, and I said no no no more than I have ever said in my life.

    She said it was not supposed to end like this and I told you guys she was crazy and told me I "couldn't break up with her" now I know what she meant cuz she gave me literal hell then after the break up she turned evil twin on me and said "I can never forgive you for blocking me on Facebook" "delete everything you ever said about" "there will never be romance between us again." I had already cut ties with her but she just HAD to make it seem like it was her decision and I just wanted her to go away so in the end she made me feel like a total prick when she was the one playing me like a violin.

    She had to have been dating at least 4 other dudes
    The guy she was grinding with from the concert (she told me she saw his d!ck but never said what happened),
    Some guy from the house party who showed up at 2 am (saw them on FB together),
    Some guy she "supposedly broke up with", flirting with her Ex.
    She had to have been dating at least 4 other dudes that I know of

    Granted she was clearly cheating on me in my face, telling me stories about it, and then proud of it. But when the break up happened she said her entire world collapsed and I was the ultimate bad guy. Her trip to Vegas did nothing to cheer her up she said she will never stop being the evil twin to me and that I betrayed her. I was the one who felt betrayed and she denied having any feelings for me when clearly I was keeping my distance and the one who didn't want to move things forward with her. Her cheating on me did drive me mad which drove me to crave her more and more which clearly was working. She said she loved me and was trying to spin a web for me but her plan got spoiled when I said she was not worth the time or money anymore.

    I do miss her, I do need her, and I feel I will never be able to replace her. We were on the up and up and we had plans far far into the future. She saw me as a long term prospect but I feel like I ruined a good thing even though I never really liked her. I know it is weird but I miss getting all that kind of attention it just sucks I have to start from scratch. But it will be a huge relief without all the stupid group dates and she was the biggest cheater I ever met and makes me look like an amateur with how much I cheat.

    To make matters worse she was a Princess to me before and always had high interest and never ignored me just played me like a violin on FB and when we were out to make me jealous. It worked but post breakup she turned evil twin and I don't know her anymore so we are officially and completely over. She said we are not even exes because exes have sex that I was just an illborn fantasy so never try to get back with her.

    She said we never dated but we went on 4 isolated dates, 12 group dates, and 2-3 different hang outs. She said people who date have sex and that me holding her hand, kissing, or playing with her hand doesn't count. She said I am the biggest jerk in the world for breaking her heart and that all guys she ever flirted with are better than me. She said I am lower than dirt because I told her this is my rainbow and you don't deserve to be a apart of it since you are trying to play the player and you only get burnt for that not applauded.
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    Default Re: Was breaking up with her a good idea?

    Man, you created dozens of threads about the same shit. Half of them gets an answer, the other half don't. Concentrate everything you wanna write (even if nobody cares) about the same subject on the same thread, otherwise it's just you spamming this forum.

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    Default Re: Was breaking up with her a good idea?

    No she thinks she might be a lesbian? She is giving flowers and with chicks now? What the heck did I do to this poor girl? How do I get over her? I can't stop thinking about her? I am screwed till Summer my sarge time so I am stuck thinking about someone I never loved.
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    Default Re: Was breaking up with her a good idea?

    in box me her facebook so i can see
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    Default Re: Was breaking up with her a good idea?

    Quote Originally Posted by DeviantMethod View Post
    in box me her facebook so i can see


    I will but...hang on something just happened. Again like I said she is a HB9 and she looks like a lesbian in this photo. I hit her up on FB and said what the heck you look like a lesbian. Then I texted her this..

    S
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    Geez you make me want you so bad.

    After the fight, after the break up, after telling me I am a Pirate without a ship, a sun without any shine, a leopard with no spots she sends me this

    Oh btw I cannot contact you on FB cuz you blocked me. (BS I unblocked her she is playing games) What are you even talking about?
    Pretty lukewarm but she has been EVIL TWIN, EVIL TWIN since the fight and said she can NEVER forgive me and never be ROMANCE again and she is back to this potential twist. The first time I start sexting her? Almost like it never happened? What the triple hell is going on and why is she leading me on again. I am on an emotional roller coaster. I'll let you see it once it goes down the tubes which is likely in the very foreseeable future. We are supposed to be broken up.
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    Default Re: Was breaking up with her a good idea?

    Well good news you won't hear about her ever again after the Sexting she asked me what I was talking about then I guess wasn't happy so she gave me the kiss of death which is the "F OFF" text so seeing how that's it I blew it. Sent you the info Deviantart. Well onto the next one. I have been trying to get rid of her for ages this was the final seal in the coffin #done
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    Default Re: Was breaking up with her a good idea?

    Quote Originally Posted by JackSarge View Post
    No she thinks she might be a lesbian? She is giving flowers and with chicks now? What the heck did I do to this poor girl? How do I get over her? I can't stop thinking about her? I am screwed till Summer my sarge time so I am stuck thinking about someone I never loved.
    How do you get over her? Find another girl to take your mind off, for starters. Have some fun. If she was like that to you is she really worthy of your attention after it has ended?

    Quote Originally Posted by JackSarge View Post
    Well good news you won't hear about her ever again after the Sexting she asked me what I was talking about then I guess wasn't happy so she gave me the kiss of death which is the "F OFF" text so seeing how that's it I blew it. Sent you the info Deviantart. Well onto the next one. I have been trying to get rid of her for ages this was the final seal in the coffin #done
    Good, we can all finally move on.


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