Was breaking up with her a good idea?
I am just wondering how this was a good idea. I had her wrapped around my finger. For 3 months solid I ALWAYS got a response to my text messages, I hung out with her anytime I wanted. I could have her whenever I wanted her. Granted she was withholding sex I wasn't necessarily trying to sleep with her after all she wasn't really my type.
Still though we had a lot of fun in 3 months and being my longest relationship ever the break up (generate from Pick Up in a Club) was the worst ever for me.
Granted I can't get her back now she is a cold fish and she won't talk to me ever again.
During the break up when she was still trying to work things out she said "we were supposed to be friends forever" so why did you guys say breaking up was a good idea exactly?
I took you guys advice she was playing me. I would pay for her concert tickets or meals and she would run off with other guys. Even on FB she would constantly flirt.
Still though after the FB she never posts anymore like she used to "Anyone want to go to lunch?" "What's everyone's plans for the weekend?" "Who is going bowling?" granted I realize these posts were to test me and to make me jealous I was tired of dealing with it. Still though she said she was heartbroken so why did I break up with her again?
She was starting to come around and the last two times we hung out she stopped flirting with other guys because I was stepping it up but she was still acting like that on FB. So remind me again why did I do this? BTW you guys told me I should break up with her but now I am all alone till next Summer and she took a huge time investment to just throw that away. May not break up again since I could be hanging out with her anytime I wanted but instead I am sitting at home alone because you guys said it was good for me. I am confused how did this help me????
When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.