I recently have stuffed up some HBs so I mention one of the cases so you can help me for future.
I directly approached this HB9 and had a quick chat then I suggested an instant date which she accepted. Then we sat at a cafe and talked for an hour! Upon leaving she said let's swap numbers so maybe we can have a drink next week after work.
My first question is that if upon approaching or on an instant date you talk about a future meet up, should I try to arrange the meet up when I text the HB for the first time? I sent a text like this: "Hey blah blah, it was random but nice chatting to you earlier today. Would next Wednesday suit you to have a drink together?".
She replied "Hey blah blah it was nice meeting you. Thanks for the coffee and lovely conversation. I have a pre commitment for Wednesday but maybe some other time".
My second question is that when the HB says "Maybe some other time" does it normally mean "no thanks?". Should I try and suggest another time? If yes, then should be a time in near future?
I decided not to suggest another time then I just said "No worries. By the way you said English was your second language. So what is your mother tongue?".
I have not received a reply after 2 days! My third question is that shall I let it go? Or shall I initiate a covo again? For now I have decided not to text her because I do not like it when chicks ignore my messages. I included a question in my text on purpose to see if she wants to reply and keep the convo going but she did not reply so I do not want to come off as a pussy by chasing her!
It would be awesome if you guys could help me with these kinds of cases.