Top 10 Stats
Latest Posts Loading... Loading...
Loading...
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Results 1 to 3 of 3
  1. #1
    aussiearef is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 526, Level: 10
    Level completed: 52%, Points required for next Level: 24
    Overall activity: 80.0%
    Achievements:
    500 Experience Points31 days registered
    Join Date
    Mar 2013
    Location
    Sydney,Australia
    Posts
    306
    Points
    526
    Level
    10
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post
    Rep Power
    0

    Default Maybe another time

    Hi guys,

    I recently have stuffed up some HBs so I mention one of the cases so you can help me for future.

    I directly approached this HB9 and had a quick chat then I suggested an instant date which she accepted. Then we sat at a cafe and talked for an hour! Upon leaving she said let's swap numbers so maybe we can have a drink next week after work.

    My first question is that if upon approaching or on an instant date you talk about a future meet up, should I try to arrange the meet up when I text the HB for the first time? I sent a text like this: "Hey blah blah, it was random but nice chatting to you earlier today. Would next Wednesday suit you to have a drink together?".

    She replied "Hey blah blah it was nice meeting you. Thanks for the coffee and lovely conversation. I have a pre commitment for Wednesday but maybe some other time".

    My second question is that when the HB says "Maybe some other time" does it normally mean "no thanks?". Should I try and suggest another time? If yes, then should be a time in near future?

    I decided not to suggest another time then I just said "No worries. By the way you said English was your second language. So what is your mother tongue?".

    I have not received a reply after 2 days! My third question is that shall I let it go? Or shall I initiate a covo again? For now I have decided not to text her because I do not like it when chicks ignore my messages. I included a question in my text on purpose to see if she wants to reply and keep the convo going but she did not reply so I do not want to come off as a pussy by chasing her!

    It would be awesome if you guys could help me with these kinds of cases.

  2. #2
    DeviantMethod's Avatar
    DeviantMethod is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 900, Level: 15
    Level completed: 50%, Points required for next Level: 100
    Overall activity: 35.0%
    Achievements:
    Social7 days registered500 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Jul 2012
    Location
    NYC
    Posts
    133
    Points
    900
    Level
    15
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    45

    Default Re: Maybe another time

    haha just get a bit alpha on her. you text should read a little something like this.
    He whats up i've been busy as hell these last few days. we will meet up this week.
    I have only mon and wed avail how about you?
    * keep in mind this should always be your 1st or second try. Its hard to get past any one once they set a pattern of telling you NO in place.
    NowYourFucked.tumblr .com/
    READ MY BLOG (farked is the 4 letter curse word)
    put it in correctly and follow me.

  3. #3
    aussiearef is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 526, Level: 10
    Level completed: 52%, Points required for next Level: 24
    Overall activity: 80.0%
    Achievements:
    500 Experience Points31 days registered
    Join Date
    Mar 2013
    Location
    Sydney,Australia
    Posts
    306
    Points
    526
    Level
    10
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post
    Rep Power
    0

    Default Re: Maybe another time

    Thanks. As a rule of thumb should I normally have a conversation before trying to arrange a date?


Similar Threads

  1. Long time reader first time caller
    By Jack Sherwood in forum New Member Introductions
    Replies: 0
    Last Thread: 11-25-2012, 09:02 PM
  2. I have a friend that i hook up with from time to time
    By iggysmalls in forum New Member Introductions
    Replies: 2
    Last Thread: 11-12-2012, 05:06 PM
  3. Replies: 0
    Last Thread: 08-27-2012, 08:29 AM
  4. Replies: 1
    Last Thread: 01-22-2012, 05:33 AM
  5. Need Help On Managing Work Time And PUA Time
    By HisTripolarness in forum New Member Introductions
    Replies: 0
    Last Thread: 01-09-2012, 11:11 AM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
DMCA.com