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    Default Should I try to go to a concert with this girl?

    I matched a cute girl on tinder and we went on a coffee date. I'm some what of a newb at dating and flirting so all that really happened was a good 2 hour convo and then I dropped her off at her place and hugged her good bye. I texted her the next day and she was pretty responsive and when I asked what she was doing over the weekend she said she was taking care of pets at her house while parents are gone.

    I texted her over the weekend and tried to have drinks at her place, she was down at first when I brought the idea up over text but I was a bit too pushy and she flaked plus she isn't 21 but said she drinks at college so idk.

    I didn't contact her for 2 weeks and when I was at her college I hit her up at midnight midnight and she said she was studying and couldn't go out but asked if I'd be around the next day and I said no. But I ended up hanging with a friend the next day at her college and had a short convo with her over her halloween costume and later on at night I texted her asking where the party is and she didn't respond.

    About 2 weeks later(a few days ago) she sent me a request on snapchat. I added her but haven't sent her anything and she hasn't sent sent me anything yet.

    I remembered on our date she said she was going to a concert which is tomorrow, maybe she added me on snapchat hoping I'd send her something/talk to her and she'd bring up that concert.

    Is there a way I could try to ask her if she's going and if so if I could go with her?

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    Default Re: Should I try to go to a concert with this girl?

    Quote Originally Posted by SupremeSteve View Post
    I matched a cute girl on tinder and we went on a coffee date. I'm some what of a newb at dating and flirting so all that really happened was a good 2 hour convo
    Nice lots of new guys can barely manage lengthy conversation

    Quote Originally Posted by SupremeSteve View Post
    I didn't contact her for 2 weeks and when I was at her college I hit her up at midnight midnight and she said she was studying and couldn't go out
    More on this in a second

    Quote Originally Posted by SupremeSteve View Post
    later on at night I texted her asking where the party is and she didn't respond.
    You are the man in the relationship, its your job to show her where the party is not hers.


    Ok brother, first off (I'm not a big fan of texting either) when you first start texting a girl, don't let it die out and not text her for 2 weeks, that is a real buzz kill for them. You have to keep some momentum going. Hiddenly you are building a relationship with her, so keeping in contact should become natural to both of you. Keeping in touch often atleast 3 - 4 times a week, to show her that you care, thinking of her, she means something to you is necessary. (think of it like this, would you only text or communicate with your wife once every 2 weeks if you had to leave on a 3 month business trip or w.e it may be, I mean I sure would want to know how she is and how the kids are doing everyday)This in turn keeps her thinking about you. It's a great way to improve your chances of getting her outside more, helps her get familiar with you while you build a connection.

    These are a few great texting guides on the forum:

    http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-gi...nal-bible.html

    http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-gi...ing-guide.html

    My Favorite one so far (just because it's so in depth, perfect for beginners) is Magnetic Messaging by Bobby Rio.

    Second off , that hug at the end of the date, could and should have been a kiss, even throughout the date should have been making out, we pua don't do that kiss her at the end of the date thing you see in the movies. But that will slowly change as you start implementing kino and get them comfortable to your touch and kino in itself is an ioi, to let them know you are interested physically.

    Now about your question, It looks very needy and desperate to try and go to that concert. Instead keep texting, beef up the volume of your texts just a little, not like all day everyday, but a bit more effort than once every 2 weeks . Just to get her thinking about you a bit more.

    And then ask her out on your terms, once you two like each other a lot more (atleast her anyways) if you go to the concert, it just looks weak, sure you can act like you just bumped into her, but that's just weak bro.(Seeing her there may not really even help if she doesn't feel anything for you beforehand) You should be directing the plans, not her!

    Good luck and happy hunting!


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