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    Default Need help with MILF at my office

    Hi, just signed up yesterday in here so i'm quite new to the game.
    I'll cut right to the topic.

    I'm 27 years old and want to get this MILF of 41 that happens to be a secretary at the office I work. She looks like 30 though.

    The IOI's are there, after some flirting around she agreed on giving me a massage someday for my injury and she said that the day I just started to work here when we first met,she knew I'm her type but said the age difference is too big and she's against such things.

    I tried to convince her otherwise like the usual things that age is just a number or doesn't matter but with no luck.

    I gave her my number anyways and to my surprise she did text and we had some chats.
    She said it in office directly to me as well by text msg that it's such a shame I'm not older. When I refered to the massage she still owes me, she said it's probably not a good idea as it will lead to other things and she just doesn't agree on that.

    This thing is driving me crazy!!! How do I get this target? Who gives a damn about age?

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    Default Re: Need help with MILF at my office

    You need to express NON-neediness & have a mature demeanor.
    Definitely keep a fun vibe about yourself, but don't act like a little boy what needs a "mommy".


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    Default Re: Need help with MILF at my office

    Quote Originally Posted by terada View Post
    I just started to work here when we first met,she knew I'm her type but said the age difference is too big
    I would have responded with:

    "Ya, you're right. I find MOST older females can't keep up with me"

    but you responded with:

    I tried to convince her otherwise like the usual things that age is just a number or doesn't matter but with no luck.
    This expresses neediness.

    As T-Mal says keep flirting with her and don't be needy. SHE will find an excuse to meet up with you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by terada View Post
    This thing is driving me crazy!!! How do I get this target? Who gives a damn about age?
    You do, otherwise you wouldn't have dwelt yourself into that trap. Test failed.

    Make her the aggressor. Create the frame where she's the one pursuing you by throwing witty and funny remarks such as: "oh, your hands look very good today! But don't think that you can impress me in order to let you massage me, I'm not that easy girl... "

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    Default Re: Need help with MILF at my office

    Agree with all of the above. Dude you already got the IOI's get her a place alone kino her and bang her why are you making it such a big deal? When you make it a big deal it becomes one when you don't it isn't. GO FOR IT! YOU WILL REGRET IT IF YOU DON'T!
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: Need help with MILF at my office

    Wow what a compliment. If I was a 40-something with a 27 year old hitting on me. I'm sure she's flattered but is probably afraid of what others might say or her aging before you. Also thinking of her kids perhaps and introducing a new guy in her life. Is she really a mom btw?

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    Default Re: Need help with MILF at my office

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    You need to express NON-neediness & have a mature demeanor.
    Definitely keep a fun vibe about yourself, but don't act like a little boy what needs a "mommy".
    Right haha although on moments my testosterone is sky rocketing it's hard to surpress the neediness feeling LOL. But I'll do my best

    Quote Originally Posted by dave_xxx View Post
    I would have responded with:
    "Ya, you're right. I find MOST older females can't keep up with me"
    but you responded with:
    This expresses neediness.

    As T-Mal says keep flirting with her and don't be needy. SHE will find an excuse to meet up with you.
    Quote Originally Posted by lenric View Post
    You do, otherwise you wouldn't have dwelt yourself into that trap. Test failed.
    Make her the aggressor. Create the frame where she's the one pursuing you by throwing witty and funny remarks such as: "oh, your hands look very good today! But don't think that you can impress me in order to let you massage me, I'm not that easy girl... "
    That's a good one, will be of great use

    Quote Originally Posted by xavier View Post
    Agree with all of the above. Dude you already got the IOI's get her a place alone kino her and bang her why are you making it such a big deal? When you make it a big deal it becomes one when you don't it isn't. GO FOR IT! YOU WILL REGRET IT IF YOU DON'T!
    yes banging her is a must hahaha, will do my best


    Quote Originally Posted by DidditHz View Post
    Wow what a compliment. If I was a 40-something with a 27 year old hitting on me. I'm sure she's flattered but is probably afraid of what others might say or her aging before you. Also thinking of her kids perhaps and introducing a new guy in her life. Is she really a mom btw?
    no she's a not a mom yet, thank goodness, as I just found out,her baby at home only seemed to be a dog LOL. So it's rather more a mature older woman.


    Thanks everyone for the tips and advice, greatly appreciated.

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    Default Re: Need help with MILF at my office

    ok even going Kino doesn't really seem to work.

    First she keeps on mentioning the age difference, eventhough she looks young she confirmed she is worried what in 5 years when she will have wringles and stuff. Obviously she is in for something serious (as you might can expect on that age)

    Now today she brags on about us being coworkers and she doesn't want people to gossip around about her being with a 27 year old dude who is still taken.
    Should I just let this one slide and focus on another target before I become too obsessed with having a milf? LOL

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    Default Re: Need help with MILF at my office

    Older women especially, want a confident man.
    That means you need to flirt & make statements of intent.

    Tell her you're having a hard time NOT kissing her... Or that if she doesn't quit being so damn sexy, your lips will end up on hers...
    Etc.

    Ignore the age comments she makes and just keep progressing.
    The age thing is a shit test.
    It's only a barrier if you let it become one.


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    Default Re: Need help with MILF at my office

    Hey bro she's push pulling you.. You return the favor. I would make light of it. I remember one night while night while at work a scene a MILF walking down the steps to exit. She was about 25 years older than me but she was always so dressed up on Saturday's. That being said she was a un approachable bitch. She actually had kids around my age. Anyways as she descended down the stairs everyone got quiet..... Thats when i said called her name and said.. If i was 100 years older you'd definitely be in trouble. She laughed until she shed a tear. She'd always try to see if i would be willing to date up to her age bracket. I just used conversing with her as a way to practice my push pull and kino. I got a shit load of perks from her being that she was my boss.
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