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    Question when is a good to time to ask (sex)

    Ok i got this girls number who works at the gym.

    She gave me her number, i then started to text her some questions

    To get her to her comfort zone about what she likes to do yada yada.

    Then i transitioned in the sex question about what type of person she is.

    Or is she into the fuck buddies type deal. She told me no! That she is the relationship type

    Person. So when is it a good time to ask about how comfortable she is with sex?

    Was i too soon?

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    Default Re: when is a good to time to ask (sex)

    Don't start asking a bunch of questions when you first meet a girl. And NEVER just come out & ask about sex.

    FLIRT with her... tease/banter/razz, etc. Have FUN. Build attraction.

    Then gradually start using sexual innuendo to gauge her receptiveness to the idea of sexual topics. If she misses it, or it doesn't hook her, then build more attraction & a little more comfort...

    When it comes to talking about sex, start out LIGHT. Talk about kissing... make comments about how she's probably a good (or horrible kisser)... talk about her lips... etc.

    Then gradually progress to more in-depth stuff.


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    Default Re: when is a good to time to ask (sex)

    What are some good ways to start conversations with girls at the gym? Some girls have their headphones on so it is a little difficult to start a conversation with them...There is the usual "How many sets do you have on this machine?" but other than that.. what methods, lines, openers did you use?

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    Default Re: when is a good to time to ask (sex)

    At the gym, MOST guys will try to mask their interest & intentions by opening with a "workout" question. Don't do it. That's what she hears ALL the time.
    (And she knows why you're talking to her, so don't try to act innocent like you're not hitting on her.)

    Instead, FLIRT! BE creative & original. Stand out from the other schmucks & express confidence.

    Tease her & banter with her.
    You CAN use the topic of exercise as an opener, because what you say doesn't really matter. Just don't get all fluffy with it & try to build rapport.

    Don't ask her how many reps she does, or how much she presses, or how many miles she runs on the treadmill, etc.

    Instead, try something along these lines...
    Example: (When she's on the treadmill)

    "You know, you're not gonna actually be able to run away from whatever is chasing you on that thing... you need to be on the pavement to gain a lead." *wink/smile

    Yeah, it's cheeky & silly, but I guarantee it's different than what other guys would say, so you'll stand out & get her attention.

    She'll likely laugh/giggle & make some comment back to you....
    Ta-Da! You successfully opened the girl.

    Now keep the FUN vibe & joke with her about other random crap.
    Don't try to connect & have a "good conversation" right now. You'll bore her to death & turn her off.... (Or best case scenario, end up in the friend zone.)

    It's not about the "lines / openers" so much... it's about creating the right vibe.


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    Default Re: when is a good to time to ask (sex)

    I'd like to expand on what Tmal is saying by putting your personality out there with clear intentions of just being fun. The more fun you are to be around the less likely they will be guarded about being around you. Let your personality do the work. Take your ttime in learning how and when to respond to things because you want to move things forward. Don't make your goal all based on one moment and one girl. Only doing so will close more doors with a girl and more chances to fail without getting better because you aren't working on focusing on your social skills in general. I believe most guys tend to build too much anticipation for one girl and tend to become too invested in that one moment.

    Learn to relax and be yourself. Be creative with your responses so she knows what she's likely to get during and.after any close or any plateaus you both meet. The more you see problems and .ca maneuver around and the frustration starts to show the more they can smell the unattractiveness of social comfortablity in these situations. Be yourself in every situation. Know what you want and decide what you're willing to do to get it. If it doesn't look promissing then don't invest so much. I'd still suggest to invest but know that its not your lost all the time. Be firm in your framing with intentions and be yourself in every encounter.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: when is a good to time to ask (sex)

    [QUOTE=T-Mal;128656]At the gym, MOST guys will try to mask their interest & intentions by opening with a "workout" question. Don't do it. That's what she hears ALL the time.
    (And she knows why you're talking to her, so don't try to act innocent like you're not hitting on her.)

    When you say what a girl is use to hearing all the time, You run the risk of getting automated response Not interested. People always try to talk to girls. They hear thing all day And don't really have time to entertain everyone. It's sort of like that feeling when you pass a person of the street wanting change. If you gave them all you'd never have anything for yourself. You decide quickly based on something you see or don't see. Because the last thing your going to do is let them talk your ear off about why you should give it to them. Asking a rep question in the gym is so unoriginal you may get the automated i'm busy response or induce the fake nice reaction to get you to leave. Basically be original on your approach. It will give you a better chance for success. It will also separate you from the pack and give you a small window to stand out.
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    Default Re: when is a good to time to ask (sex)

    When is a good time to ask for sex

    VIDEO RESPONSE
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WTkCybmC5iE

    I never ask for sex vocally

    The best physical answer is truly found through understanding kinosthetics


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