I met this girl at a meetup last week and we sorta hit it off well. The one thing I noticed was that she was constantly quickly glancing at my lips/mouth while I was talking.
At first, I thought I had something on them, but they were clean. Then, I started wondering if she was interested (I have met 2-3 girls like that who were persistently glancing at some random part of my face for no reason at all). Anyway, I took her number and arranged a date.
She was doing the same thing during the whole duration of the date and I feel a bit puzzled. Some people will say that she wanted me to kiss her. Well, I usually have this rule of getting to know the girl first and kissing her after (usually by the 2nd date). I have already been burned for not respecting this rule, so I am sticking to it.
The thing is that I am not sure about her yet. She is nice and all, but we seem to have pretty incompatible personalities. I will give it a thought until I meet her next week.
In the case, I decide to make a move, what is the best way to approach this?
A) If she starts glancing again, I can say with a grin "you must really like my lips, because your eyes are glued on them" and then lean in for the kiss.
B) If she starts glancing again, I call her out on it with a similar remark but wait later to kiss her. This will serve as both a neg and a DHV, and I give it a bit of time to sink in her head.
C) If she starts glancing again, I can say with a grin "I know you like those lips of mine, but I am not giving them easily"
Any suggestions? Please bear in mind that she is a mid-30s manager in a big company, so it's not like I am flirting with some immature college chick.
Thanks in advance!