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Thread: Big questions.. EXPERT NEEDED

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    Question Big questions.. EXPERT NEEDED

    Hi everyone, I'm really fascinated with people here cuz they all seem to be badass with women and experienced. I'm a beginner and have some questions eating my brains for weeks.

    Why do people keep asking "Does Mystery Method still work?"
    Seriously, why do they keep asking the same thing over and over again?
    I heard that It became a movie, maybe called "The Game" I haven't watched it. Are people afraid of being caught while gaming? Or is it because "The Mystery Method" is too old for year 2014?

    Natural Game or MM or Direct or Direct as Possible like RSD?
    Mystery Game feels like I have to control every dynamic going around me. I feel like I'm tricking people. As a result, they feel like I'm trying to do something. They sense that "I am up to something".

    Natural Game sounds very good. Gambler personally disagrees with the theory of NEG and DHV. That is what confuses me.

    Direct makes sense and is recommended by The 21 Convention on youtube channel, but you put the girl on the pedestal giving IOI's and compliments at the beginning. Looks like you need to have a good appearance.

    Direct as much as you can get away with is recommended by Real Social Dynamics Nation and its members. Sounds good but they recommend you to
    make the whole interaction kind of "qualifying" from opening to bed.
    Well, what confuses me is "why would a girl want to quailfy herself to you if she is not attracted?"

    How important is your Body Language?
    Should I be walking around taking wide steps, showing a good posture and looking always across not the ground? Is it so important? It kinda makes me nervous. It is recommended in the "Tao of Badass". Although the author of the book has no infield videos, only some theorical videos recorded indoors, so its harder to believe it works. Anyway, my friends asked me why I was walking like that when I did what is told in that book. It made me nervous. Do guys feel threatened or something? Is it normal?
    Maybe the girls like it, I don't know..

    What makes a man attractive?
    Balls? Flirting ability? Body Language and Voice Tonality? Smoothness?
    Disqualifying himself and Qualifying the girl? Looking through a frame of a lord? Being strong but warm?

    Any efford to help is appreciated. Thanks all in advance. By the way, I'm
    performing "Day Game". Currently, girls tend to walk away after a two minutes' conversation.

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    Default Re: Big questions.. EXPERT NEEDED

    A lot of Mystery Method and what PUAs preach is derived from the business world. How you you close a "customer/client" suddenly changed to HB. I make my living in the business world closing deals. It's pretty much the same as F-closing a HB.

    Read a few books about closing a sale and they will sound exactly like what they "EXPERT" PUAs are trying to sell/tell you.

    The bottom line is to take all the material and tailor it to your personality and style to get the best results. Just go out and talk to girls without being dependent on the outcome.

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    Default Re: Big questions.. EXPERT NEEDED

    So the idea is "practise so much that you can't fail no more"
    or something like "practise makes perfect" ?

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    Default Re: Big questions.. EXPERT NEEDED

    It's more like, "Learn to be social" by experience.
    Go out & talk to people. Learn from your mistakes & keep improving your social skills.

    Don't rely on other people's canned routines. Instead, be genuine. Use the routines as templates & tailor the ideas to your personality, so that you learn faster & it becomes more natural.

    There's nothing wrong with Mystery Method... but I personally couldn't get through the book. It read more like an instruction manual with multiple steps & processes, making it feel too robotic for my own taste.

    I read multiple books & took ideas from all of them, so that I could develop my own style & short-cut the process for faster results.

    Some guys say "fake it till you make it"...
    I say, Just be persistent & learn to do it your own way.


    Need one on one private coaching? PM me for details.


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