I had planned to go clubbing with a large group of friends yesterday. We first hit some bars and this one chick from the group started getting drunk quite early on. I acted my usual cocky/funny self and it worked like a charm. By the time we were dancing, she was all over me, grinding herself on my leg and we started kissing.
For various reasons (including logistics), I decided not to take things further. At the end of the night, we simply walked together to the bus station (kudos to the other guys of the group, they went another way to give us some space ). She was hugging me and not letting go my hand all the time.
To be honest, I did not even plan on looking for someone to hook up with as I just wanted to have some fun with my friends. She was quite drunk and into me, so it simply happened. There were about 4 guys competing for her, but I still got her
What happens now? I usually don''t hook up with girls this way (I go on dates first), so I don't know how to handle this. First of all, now that she's sober, she might be having second thoughts. I also have my pride (better social status and 6 years older than her - me 31, her 25), so I don't feel like humiliating myself by chasing her too much. But I doubt she will be chasing me either...
I am seeing her again at another party next Saturday, but I might as well meet her again at least once before. I could send her a text today but it might look too needy at this stage. Otherwise, I can send a text tomorrow asking if she wants to meet up. Do I have to write a normal message or does it have to be playful/flirty? Am not sure how to act now...