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    TuxedoLT is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Other guy. Am I on right way?

    Hey,

    heres my situation:

    Started to talk with her about 2-3 months ago. Lots of dates, success in physical contact, no sex ( we both 17, no rush). Problem is that she cant "officialy" date me because theres another guy which crosses her mind from time to time. Only mistake I did with her - too much attention. Shes the kind of girl you have unusual vibe, attraction or whatever you want to call her, generally shes "special". What could you guys offer?

    Best regards,
    Tuxedo.

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    Default Re: Other guy. Am I on right way?

    Question: Do YOU want to date this girl?
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: Other guy. Am I on right way?

    If another guy crosses her mind, what does that have to do with you two dating?

    It really depends on the context of how the guy crosses her mind.
    Maybe she's fickle & wishy-washy... or a commitment-phobe.

    Or, maybe she's still immature & not sure of what she wants. (At 17, I can absolutely see this being the case.)

    YOU just need to be more fun & interesting than this "other guy" & make her forget about him. (Or move on & find a girl who isn't unsure of what she wants.)


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    Default Re: Other guy. Am I on right way?

    What have you done in those "lots of dates"? Talked about cupcakes and Hello Kitty?
    Turn those dates into make out dates by leaving the chit-chat and start messing with her. Say something like: "oh man, you're really timid. You find me so fucking hot and you still haven't make a move in the last 3 months. But if you pay me this cupcake I might kiss you one time... maybe two "

    Really not hard, heh? Good luck


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