Came back to this forum after a very long time coz I need some serious advice about 2 issues.
1) So I've been dating this girl for about 8 months now and she is still in regular touch with her ex. Now I don't really like the idea of staying in touch with exes. I've tried to bring up this issue with her but she says that she doesn't really consider her to be her ex-boyfriend coz they were not together for very long and she wants to maintain her friendships. Sometimes they even hangout in a group which again I'm not a big fan of. Am I over-reacting ? and if not then how should I discuss this with her ?
2) Personally I'm very secure in myself but if I am in a social situation where a random guy comes and starts flirting with my gf then should I intervene or just let them talk and show my nonchalance.
Thanks so much!!