I'm delighted to say that I have become far better in actually closing a girl in a club and making out with her (you will see from my posting history this had been a major sticking point for me for far too long). The road was long and in the end it came down to never giving up, practice and, most importantly, improving my mindset made the biggest difference.
Now the problem is, once I've now made out with a girl in a club, how to escalate it enough so she actually comes back home with you etc and doesn't go back to join her friends.
Perhaps it is a combination of go back to building comfort, talk dirty to her, start kissing her neck, dance with her (not always an option if in a bar) etc? Are there any specific routines or patterns that one can follow to significantly increase the chances of the girl coming back home with you?