Met a girl in a party from a different city. We clicked and stayed together throughout the whole party till like 4.00AM or something. All the listed IOI's were displayed.
I returned home and stayed in touch via text messages. I always initiated but she replied properly with long sentences. I stopped messaging her and after couple of weeks she initiated. We texted again for a month or so with several gaps. Then I never initiated again.
A month later I got a mass message from her on whats app that she has changed her number and giving out her new number. I didn't bother as I knew this wouldn't lead anywhere.
After couple of months she messages me on Facebook with a simple hi. I had already started seeing someone so I didn't bother replying. A month later I was mindless browsing Facebook and landed on that message again. So i lied asking- why you messaging me on Facebook but not replying to my text messages. In reality I had sent none but pretended I knew nothing about the number change. She gives the obvious reply saying she didn't get any messages because her number has changed. Also she posted the new number and asked for mine. I think she was also pretending she didn't have my number because in todays age everyone has backups of their contacts. I didn't reply.
3months later I get notification on fb that its her birthday. I click on her profile and it looks like she is seeing some guy. I didn't bother.
Now 2days ago I got a message of "Happy Festival" from her on fb. I don't know if its a mass message or just for me. How do I find that out? I clicked on her profile and all the pics and comments about the guy has been removed. So my guess is they are not seeing each other anymore.
Is she trying to contact me again? How do I initiate the convo once again? Wont mind trying to see if anything can happen between us.
I don't know what it is but I can't get her out of my head. Normally I wouldn't bother if it has been so long but this is different for no apparent reason.