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    You_Said_So is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Is she trying to reinitiate contact

    Met a girl in a party from a different city. We clicked and stayed together throughout the whole party till like 4.00AM or something. All the listed IOI's were displayed.

    I returned home and stayed in touch via text messages. I always initiated but she replied properly with long sentences. I stopped messaging her and after couple of weeks she initiated. We texted again for a month or so with several gaps. Then I never initiated again.

    A month later I got a mass message from her on whats app that she has changed her number and giving out her new number. I didn't bother as I knew this wouldn't lead anywhere.

    After couple of months she messages me on Facebook with a simple hi. I had already started seeing someone so I didn't bother replying. A month later I was mindless browsing Facebook and landed on that message again. So i lied asking- why you messaging me on Facebook but not replying to my text messages. In reality I had sent none but pretended I knew nothing about the number change. She gives the obvious reply saying she didn't get any messages because her number has changed. Also she posted the new number and asked for mine. I think she was also pretending she didn't have my number because in todays age everyone has backups of their contacts. I didn't reply.

    3months later I get notification on fb that its her birthday. I click on her profile and it looks like she is seeing some guy. I didn't bother.

    Now 2days ago I got a message of "Happy Festival" from her on fb. I don't know if its a mass message or just for me. How do I find that out? I clicked on her profile and all the pics and comments about the guy has been removed. So my guess is they are not seeing each other anymore.

    Is she trying to contact me again? How do I initiate the convo once again? Wont mind trying to see if anything can happen between us.

    I don't know what it is but I can't get her out of my head. Normally I wouldn't bother if it has been so long but this is different for no apparent reason.

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    Default Re: Is she trying to reinitiate contact

    I know some people will disagree with my opinion but if I was you let her chat you and take it from there, Also when you say "Happy Festival" was it in chat or did she post it on your wall? Even if it was a mass text you should assume she sent it to you as a way to start talking again.

    In the past a few girls have done something similar cause they wanted to talk to me and asked some sort of question or said something as a way to do it..

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    Jack Sherwood is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Is she trying to reinitiate contact

    FWIW...

    I've known a lot of girls who really love the long distance casual contact. Then they find an excuse to visit or have the guy visit. Usually they make a public appearance to stest them with their friends, amd I'm going to say 9/10 times it ends, and stays, in the bedroom for the remainder of the visit.

    I've done this in the past, and its a fun adventure. However I've also never repeated a visit, or heard or a repeat visit. Maybe I'm a minority.

    Take it for what it is. Have fun. Practice your text game. "A wise man will make more opportunities than he finds."

    Look forward to updates.

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    You_Said_So is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Is she trying to reinitiate contact

    Quote Originally Posted by kylemc View Post
    I know some people will disagree with my opinion but if I was you let her chat you and take it from there, Also when you say "Happy Festival" was it in chat or did she post it on your wall? Even if it was a mass text you should assume she sent it to you as a way to start talking again.

    In the past a few girls have done something similar cause they wanted to talk to me and asked some sort of question or said something as a way to do it..
    it was in a chat. It just says on the bottom "sent from messenger". When you say let her chat what exactly do you mean? Should I just wait to see if she messages again or reply?

    thanks for your reply

    Quote Originally Posted by Jack Sherwood View Post
    FWIW...

    I've known a lot of girls who really love the long distance casual contact. Then they find an excuse to visit or have the guy visit. Usually they make a public appearance to stest them with their friends, amd I'm going to say 9/10 times it ends, and stays, in the bedroom for the remainder of the visit.

    I've done this in the past, and its a fun adventure. However I've also never repeated a visit, or heard or a repeat visit. Maybe I'm a minority.

    Take it for what it is. Have fun. Practice your text game. "A wise man will make more opportunities than he finds."

    Look forward to updates.
    Honestly I have had a lot of text game casual conversations with her. I even exhausted couple of text game books from amazon on her, lol. What I picked on the forum was do you text thing but don't stretch it for too long. Ask for a date. Thats what i usually do with local contacts but couldn't with her as she is from different city.

    Im still evaluating options on my next step. I don't really want a casual thing with her. She has every potential to be a serious thing. I don't fear rejections with casuals as I have had some but when I'm serious I hate it.

    Any suggestions? Thanks for replying.


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