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Thread: How to salvage situation.

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    Default How to salvage situation.

    Sup people,

    Need some quick advice. Little back-story about myself; I've known about pickup and seduction for quite some time now and have fairly good success. I had a great LTR which lasted 3.5 years, she broke up with me, I felt like shit for long time and I found my manhood again.

    Since then its been close to 3 months since breakup and I have had great success (better then ever) with women. Now to the nitty gritty.

    I met a girl a couple months back after my breakup and found her instantly attractive. We had mutual friends and hung out as a group once but nothing happened. After some time passed I said screw it, and reached out this this HB on Facebook and got her phone number.

    We made small talk here and there (my dumbass mistake ) but realized it wasn't going anywhere so I asked her out and she was excited and agreed. Date was awesome, however I got a Kiss close (no makeout), and she was eager to see me again and text-ed me immediately after the date. Many IOI's throughout the date and days after as well.

    Since then its been about a week and we've been texting on and off, and I have to say from her texts (I know not to look to into texts) shes very interested, making sexual suggestive comments and even said I could come over at one point ( I declined and was out with my guy friends at the time).

    Now I may or may not have oneitis, I do think about this girl a lot, find her incredibly sexy, and get along with her fairly well and we connected. She even mentioned to a couple of my friends how much she had fun and can't wait to see me again. Now past couple days she kinda went cold, not being as responsive and what not. So I figured I would invite her out to a holiday party some of my friends are having:

    Me: Are you going to be around Monday?
    Her: hmm maybe. I'm debating on going home either Monday or Tuesday idk yet
    Me: Okay
    Her: It's too early to decide hahah why?
    Me: Going to a party Monday night, checking to see if you wanted to come along
    Her: If I'm still here I will! Just not sure when im going back yet
    Me: Cool I'll text you later then
    Her: Okeee



    I am hooking up and talking to other girls, so the advice of FTOW won't really work for me lol. So my question is how to pursue matters at this point. I am really asking because I want outside opinions on what to do, since I might be a little clouded and over-thinking whether shes interested, playing hard to get, or just is flirt/tease.

    Please let me know how to salvage the situation

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    Default Re: How to salvage situation.

    It's quite easy actually. if you make the plans for Monday exciting enough she will choose you. If she does you can see it as a confirmation she's into you. And you should be able to close the deal.

    If she doesn't go with you that's when it gets tricky. You'll have to restrain yourself from becoming needy or angry.

    Keep us posted!

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    Default Re: How to salvage situation.

    Me: Are you going to be around Monday?
    Her: hmm maybe. I'm debating on going home either Monday or Tuesday idk yet
    Me: Okay
    Her: It's too early to decide hahah why?
    Me: Going to a party Monday night, checking to see if you wanted to come along
    Her: If I'm still here I will! Just not sure when im going back yet
    Me: Cool I'll text you later then
    Her: Okeee

    I'm sorry, but that exchange was boring .... also not a big fan of ASKING, prefer to TELL "Going to a party Monday night, need a good get away driver .... Let's go !!!!" ... it's more fun, more intriguing

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    Default Re: How to salvage situation.

    One thing to consider is that time of the month. She can be flirty and aggressive at one time and then a week or two later cold and antisocial. It's confusing as hell but it could just be that and not you. Best to play it cool early on and see if she comes around IMO. Don't expect her to drop her plans to be with you early on, shes not invested enough yet.

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    Default Re: How to salvage situation.

    Remember one thing:




    Women are the weak sex and males are the once who take the decisions and responsibility.
    You should avoid making a woman to take decisions.
    To do this do not ask her "Going to a party Monday night, checking to see if you wanted to come along".

    Just say "I am taking you to blah-blah-blah", so you will be in a win-win situation, because you will get a straight "yes" or "no".


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