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Thread: sh1t test after sh1t test, and thru text at that!

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    Default sh1t test after sh1t test, and thru text at that!

    Been txting this girl for the past few days and first few days were great, flaked on my attempt to take her out on a date which is cool.

    Thing is as of recent she has been asking me some serious questions over text. went from fun flirty and connection building to flake to WTF where are these coming from? They are massive iois in themselves now I just don't know how to answer her anymore, especially on this latest text.

    First text she asks me what makes her different from the other girls at work. she wouldn't let up for 2 days straight with that one, so I just had to answer it fun challenging way. So sadly I have a bad rep at work from all the ladies, they say I'm a flirt apparently, NOT very true only specifically one other girl that I sort of flirt with but I haven't really since I n - closed this one. Seriously I only talk to most of them as if a co-worker/ friend.

    Now w.e forget the short history I just gave you. Her most recent text asks me how many girls at work I've flirted with, she's heard I'm a bit of a flirt especially with all the girls at work. and she asks if its true. Now I didn't answer her yet but seriously LOL wtf?

    My real question is How do I answer this latest text, I mean thats serious, shes questioning my loyalty basically. I mean I woudln't mind an LTR with this one, I'm assuming that is what is on her mind, how do I answer that correctly

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    Default Re: sh1t test after sh1t test, and thru text at that!

    "OMG you caught me red handed, please don't turn me in." that's a fun one because your aren't dating her and you're allowed to do what you want. Or you can go with
    "aww that's cute, are you jealous?" lol all these are based on what i would say in that situation as it's my personality to joke around and tease a girl. You don't have to use it though.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: sh1t test after sh1t test, and thru text at that!

    Quote Originally Posted by marvilo View Post
    "OMG you caught me red handed, please don't turn me in." that's a fun one because your aren't dating her and you're allowed to do what you want. Or you can go with
    "aww that's cute, are you jealous?" lol all these are based on what i would say in that situation as it's my personality to joke around and tease a girl. You don't have to use it though.
    See those two are actually similar to how I wanted to respond at first, but I'm unsure because that's how you would handle it in attraction phase. We have more history than a 10 - 40 min conversation. However giving a girl what she wants always backfired on me.(She wants to hear that she is the only one right?) Like you said we are not even dating.

    What I was going to say was( to make her feel a bit special, as it may be lacking) "I have to confess, there actually is one girl that I flirt with a lot at work. She gives me a vibrant smile that warms my heart every time I pass by her workstation. a cute little girl named _______ " <--- Insert her name in the blank

    Is that giving her what she wants/ putting her on a pedestal somewhat? Though I'm indirectly answering her question. Not to sure any opinions here?

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    Default Re: sh1t test after sh1t test, and thru text at that!

    Her most recent text asks me how many girls at work I've flirted with, she's heard I'm a bit of a flirt especially with all the girls at work. and she asks if its true.


    "Yes, they all want to jump in my pants, it's really tough to be such a good looking guy... but it's a facade, I'm gay actually... "


    Or simply answer "Do you do this game of "50 questions" to all the guys you want to date? "

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    Default Re: sh1t test after sh1t test, and thru text at that!

    Ok Ok you guys win! That type of shit is weak considering not even a date or k-close yet lol, might as well, nothing to lose.

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    Default Re: sh1t test after sh1t test, and thru text at that!

    Bro, in the end it's all up to you! There's no rule that said you can't be heart felt and tell her how you feel. It's being direct but most time women get bored after they get what they want. However keep on playing too much and they think you don't like them... Lmao exactly it's hard but you got to fall before you learn to walk. Say what you want to. If you fail then learn from it and be better. You won't be really good if you always listen to others. At the end of the days It's your choice.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: sh1t test after sh1t test, and thru text at that!

    Quote Originally Posted by lenric View Post
    Her most recent text asks me how many girls at work I've flirted with, she's heard I'm a bit of a flirt especially with all the girls at work. and she asks if its true.


    "Yes, they all want to jump in my pants, it's really tough to be such a good looking guy... but it's a facade, I'm gay actually... "


    Or simply answer "Do you do this game of "50 questions" to all the guys you want to date? "
    Quote Originally Posted by marvilo View Post
    Bro, in the end it's all up to you! There's no rule that said you can't be heart felt and tell her how you feel. It's being direct but most time women get bored after they get what they want. However keep on playing too much and they think you don't like them... Lmao exactly it's hard but you got to fall before you learn to walk. Say what you want to. If you fail then learn from it and be better. You won't be really good if you always listen to others. At the end of the days It's your choice.
    Thanks you two, exchanging ideas on this one really helped me learn a tremendous amount, appreciate it.


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