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    Default newbie question on breaking the ice with a girl at the bar

    what techniques do you guys use when you are at the bar to meet women? do you go up to them and just say "hi, my name is..."?

    I've been out of the game for a while and was never really good at breaking the ice and trying to figure out something to say or striking up a conversation with a girl so I could use some help with that.

    Forgive me if my thread/post is out of line but this is only my second post here and I'm just trying to learn my way around here.

    please help.

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    Default Re: newbie question on breaking the ice with a girl at the bar

    No, you don't want to do what pretty much every other guy is doing. (And doing wrong I might add...)

    Although your "opener" doesn't even really matter (as far as what words you speak) because it's more about body language at first. But saying the same things that every other lame guy is saying, will most likely get you shot down in record time.

    You need to be DIFFERENT than every other schmuck so that you actually get her attention.

    The most effective way is to project a confident, fun vibe. Girls just wanna have fun after all...


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    Default Re: newbie question on breaking the ice with a girl at the bar

    Thanks, T. I'm quickly learning. I watched a few videos from a guy named Max. Those have helped. now I just have to get to the point where I can come out of my shell and approach women.

    I'm realizing I have a lot to offer. I'm two in one. I'm both, culturally, American and Mexican. I'm from the same town, Atotonilco el Alto, Jalisco, where Don Julio, Patron and Siete Leguas tequila are distilled so that's gotta be somewhat interesting, I'd think.

    I finally have a sense of hope with this.

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    Default Re: newbie question on breaking the ice with a girl at the bar

    You just have to be relaxed & not really care what the outcome is.

    I'm gonna send you a private message with one of the most bad-ass bar openers I came up with & had sick, ridiculously successful results with.



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    Default Re: newbie question on breaking the ice with a girl at the bar

    please do, sir. I've read some pretty good ones from Hightower's post.

    I can do this. I feel like Mikey from Swingers all of a sudden when he and Trent determine they are gonna be up 5 hundy by midnight in Vegas.

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    Default Re: newbie question on breaking the ice with a girl at the bar

    Yesterday I literally opened with "did you ask Santa for an extension cord." (The girl wa charging her phone and kept walking back and forth to check it, then I started "charging a toll" every time she walked past. She eventually came and sat with me, uninvited, to continue the convo. Ridiculous? Just proves ANY opener works like so many here say. It's not what, it's how. Fun, funny, banter...

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