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Thread: How would you guys react to late replies?

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    Cool How would you guys react to late replies?

    I picked girl up at a party, we went out once like a couple weeks ago. Before the date, she texted me fine and didn't take so long. Anyways, the date went fine. I saw a lot of IOIs and even kissed on the first date. The only thing I don't understand is that why she takes so long to reply if she's interested in me. We use whatsapp to text and I usually try to keep texting to minimum as we're adviced to, but I also flirt. I've asked her out a couple times too but she's refused cuz she's pretty busy with christmas and her cousins who come from abroad and I know she's not lying cuz she posts pictures of her with her cousins almost everyday outside doing something.

    THE POINT HERE: Now, I text her and she replies fine in the beginning of the convo, but as we keep talking she starts to ignore and replies me back after a day or two. I know she ignores because of her last seen at whatsapp. Her reply after a day or two would be "Sorry for the late reply.." bla bla. Idk what this girl actually wants, how should i handle her? Should I let it go cold and then text her again or should I ignore her and move on? I kinda do like this girl and would love to escalate things with her. Thanks for reading.

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    Default Re: How would you guys react to late replies?

    Read the conversational bible on here.

    The holi-daze is a tough time of year. People are super busy. Don't make yourself too available to her right now, cause you're busy too. Dhv.

    Fill your time learning from the resources here. Go out and flirt with some strangers.

    To address your question, late replies are still replies. Very the time you reply to her. Have fun with it. You're doing fine with her, and all is not lost. Just up your game. Do that by reading on here and practicing what you learn.

    Then keep us posted so we can learn too, and help someone else out when they need it.

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    Default Re: How would you guys react to late replies?

    I would reverse roles and reflect the situation back on her so she feels a sense of reciprocity - all through challenging her self-image and making her feel a little guilty.

    Her: I'm sorry I took such a long time to text you back
    You: Well if you texted me, I would've texted you back as soon as I had a chance that same day because I was just raised that way.

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    Default Re: How would you guys react to late replies?

    Quote Originally Posted by AdolfHipster View Post
    I would reverse roles and reflect the situation back on her so she feels a sense of reciprocity - all through challenging her self-image and making her feel a little guilty.

    Her: I'm sorry I took such a long time to text you back
    You: Well if you texted me, I would've texted you back as soon as I had a chance that same day because I was just raised that way.

    That technique doesn't actually work well.
    It comes off as being negative & bitter... & it shows her that you're emotionally reactive.

    This will cause your name & number to be deleted in her phone instantly.

    Instead, you COULD say something like, "Ya know, I wish you would have messaged me back a little sooner... I just won a trip for 2 to Fiji, and had to confirm with SOMEONE that they could go. So, now I'm stuck with the old dude / cashier at the corner store. He doesn't smell as good as you do. "

    That would be much more effective.


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