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    Default how to get a girl to send u nudes

    I've been texting a girl for a few days and she really seems into me I flirt with her she flirts with me. When things get heavy she kinda backs off from sending nudes. Would silly games like truth or dare work for getting nudes or would it make me seem like a man child

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    Default Re: how to get a girl to send u nudes

    Not every girls is gonna be into sending a guy nude pics of herself... although some ARE.

    The best way to build that comfort level is to start slow & gradually increase the escalation.

    One way is like this:

    Send her a picture of you making a "kissy face" (puckered lips) & say something like "This is my sexy look. " But make sure you're half smiling & being silly.

    She will probably laugh. (that's good).

    Then she may send a picture of herself giving you a "kiss photo" back & say "THIS is how to do it." (or something similar.)

    You try again & make a slight improvement... but still kinda silly.. "Is that better? "

    Let her gradually "teach you" how to take a "sexy" photo.

    This builds comfort & trust & gets her relaxed enough to start sending more pics.
    Don't push for nudes right away. You'll come off as over-eager & needy. Just continue to gradually escalate, little by little.

    Compliment her on her sexiness (not her looks) each time she sends a pic. Girls sometimes become more daring the more they interact with you & you assure them you're not judgmental.



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    Default Re: how to get a girl to send u nudes

    gotta agree with t-mal. every girl is different when it comes to sending nudes. a lot of the time girls are hesitant for the same reason they are hesitant to sleep with a guy. she doesnt want to be made to feel like a you-know-what. (not sure what words on here qualify as foul language) but you get my point. the way i do it is i looked up on Google 20 questions to make her sext and click on the 1st one. it literally gives you step by step scripted questions to ask her. these will make her think shes the one talking dirty. usually nudes spawn from sexting pretty fast.
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    Default Re: how to get a girl to send u nudes

    Those questions are the ones that often lead to 'what do you wear in bed?', aren't they? Those questions can work to lead them to talking dirty but doesn't always follow that they will send nude photos.

    I think it depends upon the woman that you're chatting with. I've had some women send me nude photos, almost as if they think this is what will get me. And I've had other women who seem reluctant, as they're worried that the photos will get shown around mates etc

    So, the questions can be used to encourage a certain mindset, you need to be teasing a bit about it, don't act like you are desperate for it... or you'll never get anywhere (just think of those guys that would message women on sites with messages like 'show me your boobs' etc) and a mixture of all the above gives you your best chance, I think

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    Default Re: how to get a girl to send u nudes

    Why do you even want nudes? The fact that you want them indicates that you're looking at it wrong.

    I've actually gotten pretty good at this. Not so much with nude pics, but I have had a lot of girls make "home videos" with me which, if you think about it, is way better.

    The key is to make it seem like it's her idea, or more to the point, that it's "her fault" that it happened. You can ask and suggest it until you're blue in the face and you'll get nowhere. But the first time you tell a girl no, that you don't want sex, that you're busy reading a book, and if she dares continue playing with the outside of your jeans, that you're going to have no choice but to pull out a video camera to make her stop... well, it's all downhill from there!

    I guess it'd be the same thing with sending nudes (although I haven't actually asked for nudes more than once or twice in my life). Maybe something playful like, "You keep texting me all these words, it's really interfering with my video gaming over here..."


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