Hi guys - Zeus here. Some of you oldies will know who I am..
I find myself on here for an unusual reason, and I don't know where else I can turn to in this time of need..
To set the scene, I've been off here for quite a while now, and found myself a girlfriend. I thought I was going to settle down and leave this world behind. Until recently, things have been going great, but now they are messed up.
I always knew I had the natural ability to attract girls in me, and in this world, that is considered an absolute gift - now I view it as a curse.
At work there is this super cute girl, about 4 years older than me. Technically she is my boss, but we get on so well it hardly seems like it. Anyway, she is in a 7 year relationship, straight through from high school, but is the nicest girl I know and we have so much chemistry.
Recently we have been spending more time with each other, and after the Christmas party, we ending up sleeping together. We have spoke about it since and neither of us know what to do. She has been having a rocky patch with her boyfriend, but says she likes me and finds it so hard to stay away from me. I feel exactly the same.
She however has a house with her boyfriend and her family loves him. Of course I am also in a year long relationship as well. After speaking today, she has said we need some time apart (over Christmas) to figure out what we both want. She is scared because she has so much to lose (7 year relationship and a house) and doesn't want to risk it all, however we both know need be happier with each other.
I want your wise words and opinions on:
1. What to do
2. How to go about doing it
Wise men don't need advice, Fools wont take it - Benjamin Franklin
Stick a £50 note onto your forehead and talk to a stripper.. If you can get her to not think about the note, you are gold.