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    jorgensenmrs is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Says doesn't want anything serious, why?

    Hey guys,

    So I just met this girl for coffee after meeting online and we hit it off, just talking about family, movies, normal chit chat with a hint of me flirting, so she sends me her number. I make a few jokes through texting later that day and then say, "well we obviously have more to talk about, lets do dinner this week." She then sends me this looooooooong winded text about how she is sorry but doesn't really want anything serious right now and I shouldn't be wasting my time and money on her. I already handled this and responded pretty much saying "you're thinking too much, it's just a date let's have some fun" and now she is texting me about how excited she is to see me and such, but I want to know WHY this happens since it's happened with a few girls I've met online. Was this a shit test? Does anyone else ever run into these resistances? Does anyone else run into these resistances without even talking about getting a girlfriend or anything? It just seems so out of the blue...thx guys

    Jorg

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    Default Re: Says doesn't want anything serious, why?

    It sounds like you could be coming on too strong. When I say coming on too strong, I mean communicating via text excessively, and in those texts, revealing your feelings to her. Escalate sexually as quick as possible, but move slow otherwise. Be a challenge.

    How did you end the first date?

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    Default Re: Says doesn't want anything serious, why?

    First of all, it's bullshit. Women always want something serious when they feel attracted to you. That's how they are.

    Second of all, shit test or simply a "go fuck yourself, but gently" reply depends on the attraction (or lack of) she feels about you.

    Don't do dinner dates. It's pointless. You two are eating, so no chance to kino, flirt, whatever. Do something fun. Do you have fun when watching someone eating?

    Don't talk about family, politics, etc. Flirt with her. Mess with her. That's how you should behave in order to stop with the "nothing serious" crap.

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    jorgensenmrs is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Says doesn't want anything serious, why?

    Quote Originally Posted by 21questions50 View Post
    It sounds like you could be coming on too strong. When I say coming on too strong, I mean communicating via text excessively, and in those texts, revealing your feelings to her. Escalate sexually as quick as possible, but move slow otherwise. Be a challenge.

    How did you end the first date?
    That's why it's so odd, because I really am taking this one easy and letting her get in touch, letting her ask for my number, playing the "you need to impress me" cards. I don't really have any feelings for her (yet, who knows what will happen here) so there was nothing to escalate that had me coming off as too strong.

    Quote Originally Posted by lenric View Post
    First of all, it's bullshit. Women always want something serious when they feel attracted to you. That's how they are.

    Second of all, shit test or simply a "go fark yourself, but gently" reply depends on the attraction (or lack of) she feels about you.

    Don't do dinner dates. It's pointless. You two are eating, so no chance to kino, flirt, whatever. Do something fun. Do you have fun when watching someone eating?

    Don't talk about family, politics, etc. Flirt with her. Mess with her. That's how you should behave in order to stop with the "nothing serious" crap.
    Thx bro, but bar dates work very well for me and we are conversationalists. I will err on the side of the flirtatious versus serious side of things in our coming conversation, will let you know what happens.

    Jorg


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