Re: too many dates leave you broke? lol
My point EXACTLY! Do YOU want to live or just merely exist on a bunch of crummy non-memorable dates? Granted I played my last GF and got her to pay her way while I still did things on my own like buy her concert tickets, drinks, amusements, etc just nice gestures ya know but it wasn't about money. She got me into free bowling, paid for her meals, let me sleepover to save gas, etc. But it IS going to cost you as there is no such thing as a free ride. Who wants a free ride anyway? There are bigger problems in life like staying fit, keeping up with work, keeping your dental health and health overall up to tip top shape.
I am working hard on improving my dental health at the moment while getting heavily tattooed and hopefully quitting smoking for good. All for Pick Up. I don't want to be some bum off the street.
With that said I'll tell you a secret that is why I dumped my last GF. Not cuz I didn't like her or cuz I couldn't have sex with her I could have I just didn't want to bang a 9 I would rather bang a 10. She wanted something long term anyway. So I dumped her cuz I was tired of paying the gas, concert tickets and missed overtime meaning more money to keep it going.
So my plan of action is pretty simple and cost effective. Dating is expensive no way around it. There are cheap occasional dates and you can hang at her place for free which happens a lot but she gets hungry and bored easily so hot women always want to do fun crap that also costs money. Blame them? I don't I just find loopholes and ways to work around it without trying to be a complete douchebag.
So I game in the Summer and hibernate or "train" in the Winter. I am not just sitting on my butt doing nothing. I am hitting the Gym more, working tons of hours, getting dental work, getting tattoos, filling up my wardrobe, treasure chests of swagger and new stuff you know "preparation" for Summer. After all my gaming hit another level and I find Summer to be a very expensive venture with all the concerts, taxi's, drunken nights, Clubs, Bars, events, water park passes, beer festivals yeah it gets expensive and then to add Day 2's and short term relationships to this the expenses get utterly outrageous!! Which is why like I say over and over I practice hibernation habitually and for me it is absolutely necessary. The last time I been out was Halloween and my Game was getting insane. Having my GF on the side beg me to come hang out while going out to Sarge "oh the difficulty of life". I pulled a chick's number that night in 5 minutes, got to make out with a 9.5 who was a business owner and wanted to hookup on the spot but again I was dissapointed in myself for not pulling someone even hotter aka the bartender that night was my kyrptonite and she blew me out so some 9.5 was like candy to me. But I will try to bang more 9's "meh".
Now granted HAD I kept it going I would still be in a rut but since then hit the dentist and only one expensive procedure left, got my new rib cage tatt, and on my way to finishing it as well as my shoulder to nearly finish my sleeve. The hairstylist is in love with my tattoos by the way. Anyway she keeps asking about them and then on top of that got caught up on my backlog of games. Now would this all be possible had I kept this concert relationship going? No! New Years alone is $300 (it was in me and me ex-GF's plan) so obviously I made the right choice having not gone as I got serious stuff to show for. Lastly and I'll close with these last few words.
How did I make the right choice? By getting ahead I'll be ready next year to take the cocktail waitress (HB10) to a 3 day music festival. I plan on asking her to go but why ask her to go and EXPECT her to pay that's pretty rude. Anyway she says she is in love with me so $400 is nothing but a drop in a bucket besides I saved like probably way more dumping my ex so waiting a year being single is going to get me ahead of the Game and if it is not the Cocktail Waitress then it will be the Hairstylist or my next Summer GF. Either way doesn't matter I am saving big bucks being single and every time I get in a relationship I go only as far as I am willing to spend money wise then I drop out if I am counting the dollars then I am not in lust or love and time to move on.
On that note I will not bang anything under a 9. The hairstylist is a 9 but sometimes I drop out due to losing interest in the target.
In the Winter I get time to reflect, plan my next ventures, save money for bigger weekend blow outs you know have a crazier year than last year. I hate having to dump chicks over money but it happens every winter I dumped all my Summer girlfriends like clockwork. And dating multiple chicks at once while Sarging is even more daunting! But I still do it because it is one hell of a ride much better than any go round of excessively cheap dates. It is a flashy life for me but if you wanna win go your way then by all means...
When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.