Hairstylist just played me for fun
Here's the convo and description below...
After some banter and catching up this is my 3rd time seeing her so not an initial meet up. She is a Hired Gun and I am using my Hired Gun game of qualifying and comfort building before closing as I noticed if you meet them right away and close right away they always revert back to that same feeling of rejection they gave you on day 1. So by doing this non-closing I have presented interesting opportunities for myself in dealing with Hired Guns. Here is how it went.
HB9 Hairstylist "I went to a Christmas Party"
PUA: "And you didn't invite ME???"
HB9: "I don't have your number." (Never happened to me before no girl has EVER asked or hinted at getting my number I always get theirs so my response was typical).
PUA: "I think it works the other way around." (Remember it is not Summer so I am not sarging this chick or trying to close her) I wish I WOULD have said "You asking for my number already I barely know you!" Instead I felt like I was kinda of a douche but go figure I always fail when getting hit on hardcore.
HB9: "I'll get fired"
PUA: "So I can give you my number?"
HB9: "You can....."
PUA: "Good I am just planning for the future, it is good to have goals and stuff."
Still all else was good, she was still into me, and seemed very very responsive the entire time with a good/happy ending. Any ideas or am I at a loss for screwing it up?
When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.