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    Default Hairstylist just played me for fun

    Here's the convo and description below...


    After some banter and catching up this is my 3rd time seeing her so not an initial meet up. She is a Hired Gun and I am using my Hired Gun game of qualifying and comfort building before closing as I noticed if you meet them right away and close right away they always revert back to that same feeling of rejection they gave you on day 1. So by doing this non-closing I have presented interesting opportunities for myself in dealing with Hired Guns. Here is how it went.

    HB9 Hairstylist "I went to a Christmas Party"
    PUA: "And you didn't invite ME???"
    HB9: "I don't have your number." (Never happened to me before no girl has EVER asked or hinted at getting my number I always get theirs so my response was typical).
    PUA: "I think it works the other way around." (Remember it is not Summer so I am not sarging this chick or trying to close her) I wish I WOULD have said "You asking for my number already I barely know you!" Instead I felt like I was kinda of a douche but go figure I always fail when getting hit on hardcore.
    HB9: "I'll get fired"
    PUA: "So I can give you my number?"
    HB9: "You can....."
    PUA: "Good I am just planning for the future, it is good to have goals and stuff."

    Still all else was good, she was still into me, and seemed very very responsive the entire time with a good/happy ending. Any ideas or am I at a loss for screwing it up?
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    Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.
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    Default Re: Hairstylist just played me for fun

    I would have stayed on the rapport route. Saying "you didn't invite me?" puts her in an awkward position, even if she wanted to invite you. If she didn't want to invite you, this would be awkward because she would have to be rude and not invite you, or think of an excuse why she couldn't. Or, if she did want to invite you, but didn't have your number, she feels like she did something wrong by not trying harder to get you to come.

    Her: I went to a Christmas party
    You: You wear an ugly sweater!?
    Her: No, it was just casual
    You: Too bad, you could have just worn that work shirt

    Regardless, it's all said and done. You gave her your number then?
    You don't need her

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    Default Re: Hairstylist just played me for fun

    Quote Originally Posted by Bballking View Post
    I would have stayed on the rapport route. Saying "you didn't invite me?" puts her in an awkward position, even if she wanted to invite you. If she didn't want to invite you, this would be awkward because she would have to be rude and not invite you, or think of an excuse why she couldn't. Or, if she did want to invite you, but didn't have your number, she feels like she did something wrong by not trying harder to get you to come.

    Her: I went to a Christmas party
    You: You wear an ugly sweater!?
    Her: No, it was just casual
    You: Too bad, you could have just worn that work shirt

    Regardless, it's all said and done. You gave her your number then?
    Hmm right I see your point in while I was trying to Push-Pull I think that did accomplish what I want. If I started out asking for her number without having this conversation first it could have ended up way worse since my confidence would be on the line. Because as I said I was not trying I didn't fret when she showed me that feeling of resistance.

    But I see your point I may have put her in an awkward position still I am happy now that I have more ammunition since now I know to subtly give her my number sometime and on that note no I did not give her my number. For one thing I plan on changing it by Summer and another I am in hibernation and don't got the time/money to be dating. The way I figure build rapport, comfort, etc then go for the close. It took me 8 months to close the Bartender but when I finally did it, it was a successful close. Sometimes with Hired Guns I will close right when I see them or after a couple times just depends on my mood. But not in any hurry to see it end. So I am leading her on a bit by not giving her my number.

    Also I am not in a gamey mood and me giving out my number would have been needy since I wasn't wanting it.
    When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
    Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.
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