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Thread: WTF? why do I keep attracting the same types of women every single time?

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    Default WTF? why do I keep attracting the same types of women every single time?

    Just wanted to know maybe some of you may be able to give me a hint of what the cause is.

    I tend to attract a lot of what I call "damaged goods." These girls are from broken families and they are always depressed or have some sort of issue in their personal life, or some sort of sad emotional turmoil, its driving me crazy can't find a girl my type or am I looking in the wrong places?.

    FUNNY THING IS MY AIM IS TO ATTRACT GIRLS THAT ARE THE COMPLETE OPPOSITE OF THIS! WTF?!

    I swear now that I think of it, I've never actually met a girl from a stable family and maintained a relationship with them, the ones I do.. are just usually family friends, that I don't chase after, due to other complications. AM I just too nice and give too many farks or what? this is driving me insane... why does this always happen to me, still haven't met one decent girl yet... Is one decent LTR material girl out of 3.5 billion + of them to much to ask for...

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    Default Re: WTF? why do I keep attracting the same types of women every single time

    You need to be interacting with multiple girls at once, so you can be more choosy & not end up "stuck" with just the first one who comes along.



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    Default Re: WTF? why do I keep attracting the same types of women every single time

    I tend to attract a lot of what I call "damaged goods." These girls are from broken families and they are always depressed or have some sort of issue in their personal life, or some sort of sad emotional turmoil, its driving me crazy can't find a girl my type or am I looking in the wrong places?.
    ah, I often have the same problem. I believe the main reason for this is because they are usually the easiest girls to take home with you. you don't have to be amazing to attract them, and you don't have to put in much effort to keep them around.

    I'd affectionately refer to them as "lazy man's women" (or "lmw")

    you don't have to have much confidence to game them because they already have low self esteem.

    lmw's are usually the most receptive women to approach because they don't put up any kind of "ice shield" or even much sass as they are just happy to have someone to talk to period.

    these types of women are great for one night stands, but not so good for relationship partners.

    lmw's are the bread and butter for players who want to sleep with a new woman every weekend.


    odds are you just haven't fully developed your confidence, and but you're at the point where you can consistently attract lmw's
    keep practicing, you'll get better and better at attracting women who have some self esteem left.

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    Default Re: WTF? why do I keep attracting the same types of women every single time

    I think meteora has a point of view so does T-mal, but what I want to add is this : You need to change as a person to attract other types of women. Notice how some "type" of people happen to always be together? Think of the stereotypes: The captain of the football team and the head cheerleader at high school for example. When you don't give off the vibe that you might be with one of these lmw's they won't be around, or you'll just not notice them.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.

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    Default Re: WTF? why do I keep attracting the same types of women every single time

    No clue why I even made this thread. My bad. Thanks for all the responses.

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    Default Re: WTF? why do I keep attracting the same types of women every single time

    Dude, don't question why you made a thread. That's totally beta lol! You need help and you asked, that says a lot even in a small way.

    It's actually a good topic. In my area you have hot (mostly Latina) women with kids. Easy to get a SNL as was mentioned, but not what I'm looking for. Not saying they are all immature or needy, but a lot are. So while others may consider them a triumph going on looks alone, I def dont. Maybe like half a gold star but not a whole one.

    I think we tend to attract what we don't want because we are indifferent to something that doesn't attract us! It's common behavior. That's why when I first started pick up, everything made absolute sense right away. Why did Asian or Indian women always like me? Because I didn't find them attractive (at that point in my life). It was easy to act indifferent because I DIDNT CARE. I was not needy for a woman of those cultures because I straight up didn't want one. I was myself and gave them no priveleges etc. I was gaming without even realizing lol!

    So that could be a mindset issue you may need to work on.
    Between men and women there is no friendship possible. There is passion, enmity, worship, love, but no friendship.
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