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Thread: How to deal with sexual insults

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    Default How to deal with sexual insults

    I had a run in with one of the first girls a bedded after starting pick up. Long story short things when sideways after we hooked up. She sent me a message on Facebook saying that I was a bad lay and she faked it all. She then qualified it by telling my that she has racked up a large "body count" of men since then and they all satisfied her way better than I did. For some unknown reason I'm butt hurt about it and I would like to know how to get over it and how to grow a thicker skin for the next time a girl attacks my manhood

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    Default Re: How to deal with sexual insults

    It's probably buyer's remorse on her part which has little or nothing to do with you. Girls say and do lots of crazy things before, during and after they have sex with a guy. Don't get into a war of words with her because it will just drag you down. Just ignore her.

    Think of the positives where you had the game to get her in bed. You did awesome. Who cares what she thinks after the fact.

    You should only worry if EVERY girl you have sex with starts complaining. That would then mean that you need to upgrade your skills in bed.

    Don't think twice about these comments from one girl. The best way to get over these comments is to go game other girls. Move on and leave the crap behind.

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    Default Re: How to deal with sexual insults

    ^^Great advice from Dave!^^

    She's trying to get a reaction out of you. Don't fall for it.
    Just think of it as an extreme shit test...


    Need one on one private coaching? PM me for details.

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    Default Re: How to deal with sexual insults

    I reacted to her in the wrong way more than likely, I said to her was"that was along time a go and at this point in time I don't care I got off and that's all that matters to me"

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    Default Re: How to deal with sexual insults

    me personally i would have been a smart a** and asked her for pointers. shes not gonna remember what you did wrong and odds are you didnt do anything wrong so shes is gonna do 1 of 2 things either shut up or make up stuff. when she makes up stuff i would respond with ahhh but it was memorable though then shes gonna shut up

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    Default Re: How to deal with sexual insults

    "Trolls" depend on reactions. Is that really a girl worth paying attention to? What she says is meant to provoke you.

    Quote Originally Posted by tattooedmagician View Post
    I reacted to her in the wrong way more than likely, I said to her was"that was along time a go and at this point in time I don't care I got off and that's all that matters to me"
    Well, at least you didn't respond with counter-insults or swearing. You responded better than she likely would have wanted.


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