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    MusicProducer914 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default AFC ugh need help

    I am 24 years old now. I don't know I guess I go through highs and lows but lately I feel low. Most people get progressively better. I swear from the ages of 19-21 I had so much more confidence. I don't know what happened somehow it disappeared. I was fearless when I was 19 I would approach any chick literally, no I had very little game and didn't even know about PUA then but I didn't have AA back then. WTF happened to me!?? why do I get AA and get shy now. I swear I went backwards and I don't know why. I had an alpha male mentality that I was one of the hottest dudes in my small old college and I was successful. Maybe transferring to this bigger university crushed my ego I am not sure. I am looking to you guys for advice. How to break out of my shell and become confident again ? Why am I on a crap streak now? I have to get over the rejection thing but I guess women can sense my lack of self esteem even if I am not showing it. Maybe I do it with body language or something but I guess they catch on .
    The worst part is when girls tell me I am really good looking and compliment me etc I get so confused why I am always rejected if I am good looking and have a great personality? Is it because I suffer from depression? My doctor doesn't believe it, but I strongly believe if I was in a happy relationship again with pretty gal I would no longer be depressed. I don't know what it is but please help guys shoot me some tips help me get back on my feet. I am tired of feeling depressed I need to work on my game and get back up please help me!

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    Default Re: AFC ugh need help

    Don't rely on women to make you happy. Girls can sense it when a guy isn't happy on his own.

    Relying on other people for your well-being projects neediness, which kills attraction.

    Your body language is one of the most important factors, so you need to train yourself to express positive, confident, relaxed body language, even if you're nervous or depressed.

    The thing is, by adjusting your body language, you can change your emotional state in the process. Its a natural reaction that happens.

    Need one on one private coaching? PM me for details.


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