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Thread: She seems to have trust issues... I need ammo

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    Default She seems to have trust issues... I need ammo

    Talking to this one girl from work. She says I'm sweet, BUT she's "heard things about me" & "the fact that I flirted with lots of girls from work" and apparently she was told I have an "agenda." (lol wtf? no clue where that one came from) Clearly she went through a lot of effort talking to people at work to finding this information, safe to say she likes me a lot. but she won't go out with me because of those reasons. We're past the point where these were pretty much shit test where I could have just hooked em or blow away like nothing, but it keeps coming back up and its actually an issue to her, and basically all I can read is "I don't trust you."

    Is there a way I can solve this?(personally don't think it would be correct to be fun playful and flirty right now)(Heavy and deep into comfort phase)I can't get past this little speed bump. We genuinely like each other and I wouldn't mind an LTR with her.

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    Default Re: She seems to have trust issues... I need ammo

    If you take the route of denial about the accusations whether they are true or false will just make you look defensive.

    Instead you should reply to the rumors by saying:

    "They're all true. Including the rumors that I killed a Grizzly bear with my bare hands, that I invented the I-phone, I performed emergency heart surgery with a knife and fork, I fed a 100 homeless people in less than 15 minutes and blue is my favorite color."

    Say it with a smile and then walk away. Feel free to tailor the things I mentioned to suit your style. The more outrageous you make them the easier you'll pass this sh!t test.

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    Default Re: She seems to have trust issues... I need ammo

    Don't apologize for being social, friendly & flirty. That's who you are. Just own it & say:
    "Yep, I'm a flirty, friendly person... I make friends easily & people just gravitate towards me. Its a blessing and a curse. "

    You have to get to a point where you dont care what other people think about you... You just be yourself & enjoy life.


    Need one on one private coaching? PM me for details.

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    Default Re: She seems to have trust issues... I need ammo

    It's true, thanks helped to keep my frame strong. She still didn't say yes though lol. I'm going to keep trying and build this with her. Anything else I should keep in mind?


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