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    MeInc is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Talking F-Close follow up

    Need advice on where I stand with a girl.

    I frequent these forums and have always helped me but I have a unique situation and would appreciate input.

    Girl ive been talking to always shot down my sexual advances through text and I was getting no where. Came on here learned a little bit on escalation and ended up closing at my house.

    Following days the conversations are very sexual and fun. We hang out again and she claims she's on her period mid hook up. I didn't really believe her as she hesitated and sounded unsure. But I played it cool and we moved on. Conversations seem to get less sexual following that hang out-- less open-- we hang out again. Period should be over and all we do is make out. She actually seemed annoyed for making an advance past making out. I wasn't forcing anything and i'm not overly "handsy" so I was surprised by this reaction

    She's spoken about past guys and how she doesn't keep them around long but has suggested she is actually interested in me. We drive back to school for NYE but have separate plans, she tells me how she wants to fuck me at my apartment that night but her phone dies and the following day is very flaky.

    I get a mixture of vibes that she likes me but is scared to continue/be used for sex or is just backtracking on being hard to get, or just being player.

    Not sure what path to take as each scenario would need to be addressed differently. If anyone has experienced something like this please speak up, thank you

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    MeInc is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: F-Close follow up

    Bump...

    Few days have gone by, ive done my best to show less interest, fill my time with exciting activities, show I don't need her.

    She started talking about wanting to get together last night, I gave a little and nothing came of it. I spent my evening ignoring her(phone) and with other girls.

    Had no plans of speaking to her for at least three days. Solid freeze out. Then she starts contacting me... on text, and snapchat etc.

    Is it a poor decision to flat out ignore her?

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    Default Re: F-Close follow up

    In my opinion you've been going at it the right way seeing as how she keeps on leading you on and flaking. Don't ignore if she texts you but also don't contact her too much either. It also sounds like she's having buyer's remorse after having sex with you. Also if you have a good reason to freeze out then do it, just make sure freeze out isn't the answer you use for everything everytime you don't get your way. That's actually how you mess things up with the girl.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!


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