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Thread: Happy new year! Advice needed ;)

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    Default Happy new year! Advice needed ;)

    Hey everyone, so I need to say I have been extremely busy and have not been as active as I once was. I will make the resolution to check the forums more often and exchange ideas and tips. Firstly, this 'field report' is more of an example to all of you of how too caliber your game. It is not a success story, it is more of a fail. But let's see.

    I went on vacation with family over the holidays, it was amazing. I had a great streak, fucked an 8 and a 8.5. Overall very good for a short family vacation. Upon my return, I was more confident than usual. So I met this HB9.5 (not exaggerating). She is a bit younger than myself and the interaction was easy and she ended up number closing me. To make a long story short, we make plans to go out for new years. Her group of friends and my friends. THe night starts off well, but I must admit we all did too many shots before heading to the club.

    Now keep in mind that this is our first time hanging out together, and we haven't kissed or escalated. Just flirting, kino, etc. While the pre drinking I was DHV doing some dancing, entertaining her friends, and just being confident and fun. I got a very strong hit from one of her friends (Lets call her girl 2), and well during the haze of the shots I guess I started gaming her as well. (Which I don't see as a total mistake, since technically it was not defined at that point anything between myself and girl 1). So we leave to go to the club and I am walking with girl 2. For whatever reason, we start making out (Girl 1 sees us and pretends she didn't)

    When we get to the club, girl 1 calls me out on it.\

    Girl 1: I am really mad at you.
    Me: Smile, "Okay"
    Girl 1: How would you feel if I made out with your friends?

    So I kind of went and danced a good part of the night with other girls. Then we ran into each other (girl 1) later at the club, I gave her a sincere apology and went for the kiss. We made out, danced , and had a good time. We took the train back, and had decent chemistry (although I was really drunk, and she was too).

    Now forward to the next day, I sent her some pics. I got no reply. I texted her to tell her we were going for dinner. She said MAYBE. I said Okay, I will come get you tomorrow at 8pm. The next day comes and I get no text or anything. At this point I decide to be more direct and call her. She ignores and texts me she's not feeling well. I play it cool (I did have a back up plan lol) and we exchange a couple of meaningless texts and I never messaged her since. I KNOW NOW THAT SHE SOBERED UP SHE IS PROBABLY VERY PISSED ABOUT ME AND GIRL 2. In fact her friends have probably told her to stay away from me. So I know this is a hard battle.

    Now, I need to be honest. I am not outcome dependent on this one, I could care less. But she is hot, smart, and I wouldn't mind getting to know her. So I decided to see if I could turn it around.

    I have decided to freeze her out, see if she initiates contact.

    Boys, I appreciate any input/feedback/advice, or suggestions as to how to proceed.

    Happy new year and happy sarging!!!

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    Default Re: Happy new year! Advice needed ;)

    Here is some advice .... when you are out gaming DON'T GET DRUNK ... nothing good ever comes out of being drunk and for me a real man knows how to hold his liquor.You blew it with a 9.5 who is hot and smart because of it , not smart. You are an interesting,bold, flirty guy who is comfortable around women .... you didn't need the alcohol

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    Default Re: Happy new year! Advice needed ;)

    I completely agree with you 100% brother.there is definitely no excuse for my drinking that night.

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    Default Re: Happy new year! Advice needed ;)

    So we live, we Fck up, and we learn .... I'm not preaching abstinence, I like to drink, but I've learned that for me,four 7 & 7's and I am done for the night. Good Luck ..... and YES, get to know the 9.5 ... why do you have to lose !!!

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    Default Re: Happy new year! Advice needed ;)

    Thanks, tactic worked.
    She contacted me, we are going out Friday. I am gonna work on keeping the attraction but building the trust I lost by my actions lol.


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