I was dating this girl for a couple of weeks before the Christmas break. We got intimate quite quickly and were seeing each other almost every day during that period. From her general behavior, I was under the impression that we had become a couple (she was very sweet, kissing my hands and hugging me all the time).
Anyway, we exchanged goodbye/holiday wishes text messages the day before I left. So far so good. Then, the next day I arrived a bit too early at the airport and had to kill time somehow. I was looking at the various shops and then wrote a short text telling her about what I was doing and commenting about something she told me the day before.
Well, she never replied. No even a "have a nice flight/trip" which is like the bare minimum. I received such messages from simple friends, I expected to also receive one from my supposed gf. At that point, something was fishy and I suspected she changed her mind about me.
I thought of testing her and sent her a merry xmas sms on the 25th. No reply to that one either... To me, this is simply rude and decided she was not worth my time. I will not waste any more time chasing her but I still want to understand this sudden change of behavior.
First mistake, we had already said goodbye to each other, so it may have been needy to write again. However, if we were truly a couple, it shouldn't be a problem. Many couples communicate at least once per day (and I personally like such interactions, ie: sharing a thought or describing something funny I saw, etc.).
Second mistake, my message might have been too plain. I should have inserted something cocky/funny.
I am coming back on Sunday and she knows it. I am really curious to see what will happen. Either she does not write to me and it's officially over, or she does send me a message like nothing ever happened. If that ever happens, I wonder what my stance should be...
I really need to make a point and explain that her lack of communication is inadmissible. The trick is avoiding sounding butt-hurt and thus acting as a beta. What would be an appropriate alpha male response to such behavior? I am still new to the game and have not had to deal with direct confrontations yet.
Any advice would be helpful.