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    alphablastt is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Low interest move on?

    She texts first:

    Her - (youtube video) Is this the thing you wanted to show me?

    Me - I would've liked to have seen your reaction to it

    Her - I WAS ON THE FLOOR. Taylor from work happened to put it on and I was like… omg Ian spoke about He Man

    Me -Cause I'm awesome. And here's an awesome idea, us going to acoustic Wednesday at (name of place)

    Her - Hmm I still have a few people to hang out with before school starts. I gotta see but I would love to


    Low interest move on?

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    Default Re: Low interest move on?

    not low interest. how long have you been talking to her?
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    Default Re: Low interest move on?

    Well you need to reply to her. When she doesn't reply back to you is when it could be low interest. Any kind of interest(especially when she says something like "I would love to")is a good thing. Females aren't going to invest a whole lot in the beginning but just because they don't doesn't mean they aren't interested. Remember pretty much every thing you say to her(in response or otherwise)can be viewed as a test. She is always testing you.

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    Default Re: Low interest move on?

    Update:

    I text nothing, she texts she can and wants to go, I respond with logistics, and then she texts that she will confirm with me tomorrow (she confirmed our first date).

    To me, all seems pretty good. But then I thought, our first day was dinner at a music themed place and the date I planned for this Wednesday is to see acoustic musicians at a bar/lounge/coffee place (we're both musicians).

    I was thinking that maybe when she confirms (or before) that I suggest a date with more walking around involved for a different day.

    Any thoughts?

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    Default Re: Low interest move on?

    Don't plan a second date before you've had the first. That's just weird and needy.

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    Default Re: Low interest move on?

    Not what I meant. This is about the second date. I'm talking about me rescheduling and modifying it to a different type of date (one that involves more walking around)

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    Default Re: Low interest move on?

    Quote Originally Posted by alpha1ntra1n1ng View Post
    Not what I meant. This is about the second date. I'm talking about me rescheduling and modifying it to a different type of date (one that involves more walking around)
    Oh sorry. I misunderstood you there. So what have you already agreed to? Some sort of acoustic open mic type thing? Hang out, listen to some singers, that sort of thing?

    Bear in mind, that the publicness of the event and the lack of motion/location change may be part of the reason she said yes.

    If it were me, I'd keep the core of the date the same and start nibbling around the edges, a la Mystery Method. Oh yeah, cool we're going here, but first we need to stop off at this place because I need to pick up something for somebody or whatever. Hey! Maybe you can help me pick it out!

    And of course, have something planned for after. Again, it should be quick and painless, but possibly lead to a longer time. But I stay stick with what's been agreed. For all you know, that's specifically the thing she wants to do. Or whatever. Either way, she's agreed to it... don't mess with success!
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