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    alphablastt is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default need help with third date

    The second date was amazing kino and heavy make out sessions. Communication has been through text only with me setting up the dates but her initiating contact more.

    I've been thinking about the third date and my instinct tells me I've escalated enough to close. The only day of the week that I'm going to have a place to myself is Saturday. I'd rather not do a weekend date until she asks me but that might be my only option I guess. I'll have a place to myself everyday in a couple of weeks but that's a couple of weeks.

    Anybody have any ideas on what I should do about the third date? Initiation? Logistics?

    Also, I'm looking for a relationship not a one night stand

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    Default Re: need help with third date

    That depends how comfortable you think she is with you. Usually by the third date I know the girl is extremely comfortable with me so I just invite her over to my house.

    I like to cook for the women I date so I'll say something like. "I'm making xxx on Saturday and I want you to come over." That's it.

    If you feel like she's not comfortable enough for this do something else, get her worked up, then bring her back to your place. Kino the crap out of her and make out. When you can tell she's ready say "lets go". She'll ask "where?". To which you respond "my place". It's really that easy.

    I think you're making it more complicated then it needs to be. If you don't want to see her on a Saturday then don't. Just because you don't have a place to yourself doesn't mean you cant still bring her there. When I used to live with my dad I brought girls home ALL THE TIME. I would tell them we're going back to my place. When they asked me if I lived with my parents I would tell them yes. It never mattered.

    If your living situation is more complicated think of alternative locations. Talk to some buddies who have their own place and see if you couldn't bring her there for a couple hours. I've done this before, and if you have good friends, they will be happy to help you. You can also think about remote locations in your area and bring her there in your vehicle. Then you just bang her in your vehicle. Another option is a motel.

    I think you can close this girl too, and the sooner the better.

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    Default Re: need help with third date

    Direct's idea of "I'm making xxx on Saturday and I want you to come over."*is fantastic and it puts zero pressure on her because it's not a date date ..... and if you can't cook, order out and throw some pots and stuff into the sink to make it look like you've been cooking all day ... and don't forget a nice bottle of red wine

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    Default Re: need help with third date

    Both of those ideas sound good but I have another question. She didn't text me after the second date like she did after the first. Is this a red flag?


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