Re: How to not trust so easily?
This is more of a matter of attachment. I just got done taking this one square in the teeth myself. You just got to let her go and move on to the next target. Do not sell yourself short and be beta trying to get her back it isn't worth it. That and if you did the obvious trust issues will make it never a good situation. By nature we do not like to lose, but the alpha knows to move on and find people who actually appreciate them and there time.
It isn't your loss trust me. They lose because doing the same thing over and over with the ex and expecting different results is only definable as insanity.
Chin up plenty of others are worth your time more
Learn to be a better person not a better player.